Will my large labia ruin my chances?

okay well I've never been f*ngered before. everytime a guy tries to I tell him I dont like it but its only because im embarassed about my lab ia. they are longer than normal lab ia should and they have extra tissue it seems like(l abia is the lips around...

the opening of your vgina). would a guy be able to feel my labi a if he f*ngered me? and if so would he care? and when a guy fingers you does he fondle you at all or is it usually just inside you kinda thing?
guys answers appreciated too thanks!

I'm a male and I've never been put off large labia, in fact I prefer it. I had a girl once tell me she loves foreskins for the same reason, it's great for oral sex, so much more flesh to enjoy. Whatever you do, don't feel embarassed, and if a guy ever makes a negative comment, just feel sorry for him because he obviously doesn't appreciate your assets.

well..if a guy does it right yes he will rub u down there 1st ..and i dont think most guys would care theres no big deal i mean.. he will be mad horny so he wont even notice and like i said if he does.. so what i no i wouldent care

good luck :D

There are many women with longer l*bia than average. It isn't a big deal. Most guys are not going to care. Any guy that does care and does not want to be with you because of it is a weirdo that isn't worth your time anyway.

You should relax about this, it is actually real nice finding a women with larger ones, most guys would tell you the same and they are not unattractive.
On the latter part of your question, a good mouthful and anything else you both like would put and end to your lack of confidence and issues that dont really exist.

Be selective, find the right guy and dont look back.

Pete

Never! There is nothing better than discovering that your lover is well hung when it comes to the inner labia. Men love it, plastic surgeons want you to think otherwise. So if you have nice dangle, show them off any chance you get.
Dave

I'm going to reply to this query as it's so common these days, partly due to sex ed still being lacking in the female department when it doesn't directly relate to fertility and partly because of the insane habit of air-brushing away longer labia in porn.

In my experience most women's inner labia protrude below the outer ones, especially when aroused, so no worries there.

Have you looked at your vulva in a mirror when you're aroused? You'll notice that the clit and labia engorge and look entirely different and the sight drives men wild. What do you think all those poetic allusions to roses are all about?

Stop worrying and learn to please yourself before you let a guy finger you. It's important that you know what gets you wet because a dry fondle is more sore than a pleasure.

If your labia really were uncommonly large (and they do exist) you'd find even walking in trousers uncomfortable enough to have sought out a doctor before now. As I doubt this is the case, relax and learn to love your body. Nothing is more attractive to a man than a girl who loves her skin.

Good luck!

I bet you look just fine. its normal. some guys even like them larger.

Hell yes...the bigger lips the better...I personally love a big lipped vagina...so much more stimulating to my mind...

I'd love to have you matter of fact!!!