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I think I have slightly been through the same type of thing.
The thing with that is, you dont deal with your feelings or emotions about whatever events have taken place- You feel you dont care or you have no feelings towards the situation, but in fact you are choosing to ignore your emotions- and not deal with them.
I find that you end up paying the price for not dealing with those emotions at the appropriate time. They build up, and become a snowball effect- Eventually your snowball becomes so huge it breaks. And your emotions all come out in a heap.
You should possibly try therapy. It could help you learn how to deal with your emotions at the appropriate times, and learn that its okay to feel those things.
Just deal with one thing at a time.
You cant expect to fix all the problems all at the same time. So work on it bit by bit. Try and keep your cool about everything. Warn your friends and family that you are stressed out because if they say the wrong thing while your in this stage, you might throw a hissy fit. Its always nice to warn them ahead of time just in case. If you need someone to talk to I'm here. The key factor is take this one step at a time, starting with the biggest problem and working your way through them. This is all part of life, and your body is testing your skills to see how you deal with things. Don't let yourself down. If your getting worked up about something, take a nice walk or a nice bubble bath and just calm down as much as possible so the problems don't get worse.






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SO basically the last three weeks of my life have completely sucked. some pretty crappy stuff has happened to me, including things that would normally overwhelm me badly.
at this point I would think I, or almost anyone for that matter, would have some kind of a break down by now, but I havnt. it's not quite that im emotionally numb or shocked or somthing, it's more that I don't care. like I'm taking it. to be honest, thats more disturbing to me than the whole last three weeks combined.
any theories?