Whats wrong with me

Asked by kierra19 over 2 years ago, 2 answers.

inability to have an orgasism.
I am a 20 year old woman who can not have an orgasism...What could be wrong? I have before but havent be able to again

Answered by gothik on Jul 24, 2006, 02:46AM
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It's called a disorder.

Unless you've never experienced g-spot and clitoral stimulation at the same time, then you have a disorder that makes you physically inable to experience an orgasim. If you haven't experienced those 2 things, get your man to do them, but, try to get as turned on as possible, try to get some porn and watch it with him, ask him to give you a back massage first, in a woman's body, it's best if your nerves are kinda ready for intense clitoral and g-spot stimulation. Once your all good and ready for everything, (only do this if you like this... Some girls do this during foreplay) - you can attach clothes pins to your nipples, or have something pinching them, I know it sounds weird, but some girls do it during sex, or whatever because it feels better and adds more tension and such. Some him how you like having your clit massaged, and remember, the g-spot reacts more towards pressure rather than just fast light movement, show him your clit, get him to lick that and insert 1 or 2 fingers in you to rub your g-spot, if you both do not know where the g-spot is, it's about 1 and a half inches in and about 1 inch up, ask him if he feels any ridges as he bends his fingers inside you, if he says yes, tell him to go up more, he will feel a slippery/rubbery feeling, that's your g-spot, when pressure is applied you may feel the urge to go pee, so make sure you went before doing this, your g-spot is right under the bladder so be careful. I hoped I have helped you, if you do truely have the disorder, I am very sorry, an orgasim is a wonderful to experience, but some people never get to get one.

- Gothik

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Answered by kellywithaynoti on Aug 04, 2007, 12:12PM
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You can also try a small vibrator... place it on your clitoris, and just see what happens. Experimenting with your own body works well for women who have not experienced an orgasism before, and arent sure if they are able to.

My sympathies go out to you if your not able to EVER experience it again. lol

Keep in mind there are 2 types... clitoral and vaginal.

The vaginal orgasism is harder to achieve. That G-spot is hidden very well.
BUT GOOD LUCK !

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