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Whats up with my boyfriend? =[

Alright, Me and my boyfriend have been going out 2 months. We used to hang out everyday before school ended, and every since school ended he keeps telling me he wants to hang out with me, and we hang out, then he always cancels.. Because he’s to busy playing games on the computer, and being with his friends. Also, he hates talking on the phone, but he only texts me stuff. Some days he always ignores my messages, and doesn’t text back for 2 days. He tells me he loves me a lot, and doesn’t ever want to leave me, but he’s always with his friends, and never hanging out with me before.. Please can you help me with this? It would help me out. Plus we’re both 14. And have many things in common..=)

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Well, since it is the summer, he has a lot of free time to do all the stuff he had been planning on for a while. Go a day or two without talking to him. Seriously! No text or phone calls. If he contacts you tell him you are busy but you would love to hang out with him when you have a little more free time. Don’t be hateful. When you do hang out with him, talk to him about it. Guys enjoy time apart from their girlfriends and they also enjoy a girlfriend who can be independent. Just show him your life is just as important as his. Sam

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