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What wud you do ??

mE Asked by ashley_2k9 4 months ago, 6 answers.

At lot of people in the world would defnitley giv up their baby if they were sexuallly abused like raped !!!
Would you give your baby up? By giving up I mean adoption / surragecy / abortion ?

And if so why ?

Me - Created by maggot4 (Raven) Answered by ichibanarky on Jul 18, 2009, 10:00AM
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I'd keep my baby.

Certainly rape is a traumatizing experience, but having something beautiful come out of it would just prove that there is a silver lining. That baby is half me, and even though I didn't ask for it to be created, I can't help but accept that the child was meant to be.

Of course, I speak from the point of view of a mother of 3 children already, and I can't imagine aborting or abandoning one of my own.

hair (: Answered by serjimmy on Jul 18, 2009, 10:38AM
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How could you raise a baby knowing the father is a rapist? It's unfair to the child plus you would have to tell the child one day that their father was a rapist, it would mess up the childs life! personally, I would abort it if that happened to me.

kat von d Answered by blindedwithin on Jul 18, 2009, 10:44AM
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im a guy and I think that abortion is a way to just cut the problem short.remember babies are not straight away babies.so aborting it wouldnt really mean killing a human.

Answered by randomquestion123 on Jul 18, 2009, 10:50AM
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ok ummm rape can be realy tramatizing exspecally if it is your first time some people cant keep the baby because everytime they look at the baby they relive their rape sometimes that can make them hate there baby even if they love the kid that hate how everytime they look at there kid they remember the rapeists face or what he did to her so is it better to give away a child to a family tat can love it and not hate it or relive what could be someones most terrorizing moment everytime they see there kid

Answered by happy_but_clueless on Jul 18, 2009, 09:09PM
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It must be terrifying waking up everyday and knowing that you were raped. I would not kep the baby because imagine what you would haveto say to the poor child when he or she asks Mom, who was my father or What was my father like?! It would be heart-breaking to say the truth Oh, sweetie, I don't really know who he is but he raped me and I got pregnant with you and then that horrifying moment of pu terror comes back to you... it must be a HRRIFYING feeling. I would choose adoption and give the child toa family who would love the baby.

in ma room Answered by iloveelmo on Jul 19, 2009, 07:31PM
218 answers

I would keep the baby or give it up for an adoption,I could never abort such a beautiful innocent child its just wrong!

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