What would you do??

If one of your best friends made out with your ex-boyfriend and waited 4 months to tell you about it. Only the ex is the one who told you that they kissed and she just gave you the details on what really happened. I made the decision to just forgive...

and forget but the forgetting part is harder than the forgiving. I am having no problem forgiving him because we werent dating, we werent talking, he didnt know how I really felt about him. So I am fine with him because he is the one that told me about it. I am having great difficulty being ok with everything on my best friends side. One she didnt tell me about it when it happened. Two she knew how I really felt about him. Three she didnt stop at just one kiss she kept going. How can a real friend do that to someone. I dont know if I should still be her friend. I also feel like an idiot because I have just let it blow over. She now has a boyfriend. My ex is still single but he and I are in a very weird place because resently we made out. He keeps telling me he doesnt want to lose me. He isnt going to unless he does that again. Now he knows how I really feel. He wants to be just friends but says it is so hard and that his feelings for me have grown over the months. I have always wanted more than just friends but havent really told him that. So I have three questions. Am I doing the right thing about this situation or should I be harsher? Do I tell him what I really want? And should I still be friends with my her?

***Do I tell him what I really want?***

You already did. And if he wants to just be friends, then leave it at that. DO NOT, however, let it turn into one of those 'friends w/ benefits' situations.

***And should I still be friends with her?***

No. A real friend wouldn't have done what she did.