What would the girl of my dreams like...would you like it...?

Well here I am again feeling almost as bad as what I did exactly a month ago. I didn't get any sleep in last night cause all I could think about was my ex a month ago today we broke up and I almost feel as lost as what I did back then.

About 2 days...

ago was the first time we spoke after 3 weeks and it was soooo nice hearing her voice again. We spoke for about 15min and I tried to sound as happy and as sweet as possible and told her whats happening in my life I let her know that I bought a House and new car (wasn't trying to brag she knows that I have been saving money but she didn't know for what).

After the conversation I sms'ed her and said "it was nice hearing your voice again and don't forget I meant everything I said in the letter" (After we broke up I wrote her a letter saying my last words to her but in there I said that she's the person I want to end up with and I meant it.)

After sending the sms she immediatley responded with "Are you seriousley telling me you still want to be with me?" I replied "Everything I'm doing now is for the person I love most in this world and to whom I told I would end up with" Being nervous/excited/happy/sad/scared everything at once my heart was racing like crazy while speaking to her and sending the sms.

I didn't get anything back from her, so my question is ....Lady's how would you feel if your ex after 3 and a half years together sent you this after a month of a break up ? keep in mind there is a rebound guy she's seeing but I know it's not going to last with him. My plan is to get back with the girl of my dreams but I want her to realize that the grass isn't greener on the other side.

So what I want to do is be the friendly guy on the phone and always let her know that she's special to me. Would this work...?
Am I putting myself on the line for more heartbreak or should I never give up on her ?

What would you like...?

(Keep in mind we shared a lot together and we were eachothers true first loves)

Thanks
Sean

That sounds incredibiliy sweet and that you really do love this girl. And I would think that after 3 years of being with you that she probably really loves you still, I have exactly the same problem as well but and I've done everything possible to get this guy back but he doesnt want to I respect that but yet it hurts. Listen to me though at first when me and him broke up I also had a reboud guy and I was to scared to admit my true feelings for him which led him to move on and I bet that if you hold on tight she will eventually realize that she feels the same, if you let go things will never be the same for you guys. I may not no this girl but I no from past experience that you cant go so long with someone and drop your feelings insintly. If im right she will find her way back to you, and that was a nice thing about the letter sending her that probably did help out a lot, and it might help to remind her of your memories with her. I hope everything works out!

Hi,yeah I think you did the correct thing,it took a lot of courage for you to put it on the table like that.I bet that messed her up in the brain in a good way.well give her a little time to shake the rebound loser guy,also I hope you too have remembered what caused the brake up so that it wont happen again,I believe you to belong together,and never give up on your true love because its so rare and precious,best wishes

Thanks a lot that made me feel so much better hearing that.

She the type of girl that I will love forever no matter what I do or who I go out with and I'll go out of my way to let her know that im there for her no matter where in the world she might be.

There's just something about her that I've never felt with anyone else and I know deep down in my heart that she's the girl I'll spend the rest of my life with no problem, I need her to go threw what she's going threw so that she can realize herself and that one day we both don't feel like we missed out on the best years of our life.

I decided to phone her once a month just to show her that I still care and that I have'nt forgotten about her, but im not going to mention how much I love her or what im doing for her anymore, im just going to let her know that im doing well and that im happy and if she ever asks me "Do you still love me?" I'll simply reply "You Know" so that I always leave a ? after our conversations.

She's so special to me I never want to get her out of my life, O and I have learned a lot after the breakup and have realized what led to our breakup and I'll make sure that I'll always make her feel special when we get back.

Thanks for listening and your feedback

Hope you Girls find someone that would love you as much as I do her

Sean