What turns girls on?

ok...simply put...how do I turn on my girlfriend...get her in the mood? weve been going out for 4 months and have made out several times...but I want more! what do I do? im new at this!

its different for every girl like the girls above me like gentle sweet slow stuff if your girlfriend is like me (Ask first) go in a room alone make sure your standing up push her against the wall not to hard and kiss her if shes like me this will turn her on then after the kiss just walk away and sit down shell want more and shell come to you and kiss you that kiss willl mean she wants to but if shes not like me dont do that some girls take it the wrong way just ask her = )

I heard somewhere that a girl's earlobe is a sexually arousing place, so when you whisper in her ear, kiss it lightly and breathe on it

omg okay look blow in her ears and like rub her neck like barely put your fingers on there and go around it turns me on.. and like when you touch her thighs go really lightly

well if she is 13 you are way too young,but I loved it when we were laying in my bed and he was rubbing my stomach.we were far apart at first then he pulled me closer and started rubbing my inner thighs. we were having a little light convo. he then layed on top of me but not too much pressure, but enough for me to feel comfortable.then he kissed my forhead.then he started rubbing my arm and he unbuttoned my pants but he hadnt yet taken them off.after that he slowly pulled my shirt off while rubbing my abs.then he kissed in between my boobs then my stomach,then he gradually slipped my pants off. he took his hands and rubbed them up and down my body.he still had his clothes on but that turned me on even more to know that the attention was all on me.then he grabbed my but and thrusted it up and we started making out.I loved how he used his hands a lot and took that manly control.u just need to be confident and show her that you know what your doing.

my boyfriend just fingers me and grabs my a** when we kiss DAYYUM

Well...be sweet and romantic. Stroke her arms, kiss her neck, tell her how beautiful she is. Keep your arms around her.
And, for heaven's sake, wear a condemn.

If your trying to turn a girl on one thing to do (only do this if your making out and really into it) grab the girls hand gently and press it up against your crouch (pants on or off!) or kiss her and slide down her neck and down her stomach. When you hit the top of her underwear completly skip them and kiss as close as possible. Keep kissing down to about her midthigh the come up and kiss the very center of her throat.

ok wtf if you really like her enjoy where your at and let things happen naturally
she wont appreciate it when it finally comes if you have been pushing her for ages
when shes ready ull know

Ok...I am a 13 guy an have fairly good experience 4 My age no lie. Ok number one don't push it don't expect to get some poon on your second day. If she is new to it try a little by little . And if she wants more she will get it LOL. If she doesn't go 4 more(uncomfortable). Girls are sensitive and are NOT sex toys. If she really wants it and you are both good wit it then you shouldn't even be reason this. Try slowly rubbing sensitve areas for example my girlfriend likes it when I slowly enjoy every little bit of her body and also like when I kiss her neck don't make it a ten second time to fast unenjoyable 4 me and her after you are both suducded go 4 it and don't just destroy her puss keep feelng her up and make it corresive and very enjoyable don't make it so it's over in 5 minutes. I still a virgin but have eaten out fingerd and got bj all this works 4 me even when I go to party and get random girls ... This happens after broke up

What I want to know is did the guy who asked the question ever get anywhere with this girl? and what has he learnt since it was asked :P

but yeahh.. everything that has been said pretty much works (:

hey as I am a girl I find it quite easy to answer this

from what I have red all girls have different ways of well...
getting laid.

what I think you shuld do is come up behind her and hold her around her neck (if you ar 2 short then hold her waist) face her face and kiss her on the cheek slightly touching her lips with yours and the only way is 2 signal to her that you wanna go further(this dus not necessarily mean sexual intrz) when you are looking at her eyes, take your eyes to her boobs quivkly and them flick them back to her eyes and them flick them down lower, and then back to her eyes (dont do this more than 3 times as it is weird) if she wants it, she will come and get it, if she doesnt go for it(she might still want it) she might just be a little tense and will not go further so dont try

I have a question for you do you know her position on sex before marriage? you gonna look like a complete asshole if she doesnt believe in it and you trying for the life of you to get with her... besides 4 months whats the rush control your hormones... girls respect guys who wait

to turn a girl on you gotta be fresh and gotta kinda give off that bad boy effect too. for example, tattoos really turn girls on. you can't rush to make your move but you can't wait too long either. girls also work a different way than guys too. I'm not promoting this, but if you treat them like dirt, they stick to you like mud

I get turned on and orgasm when he fingers me.

Start kissin down her tummy but not to far down and go back up 2 tease her

Play about with them . Make them feel really special . Tell them how beautiful they are . How much you love them . Slowly and carefully work your way down . Feeling every part of there body . Sucuducing them . Sexually . Mentally . Tease them intil they just want to bang you all night its all aboutt getting them Up for it :D

Sudden love bite and kissing neck.. find her G-Spot.

kiss her neck

After doing the deed, try not to ignore her afterwards. Going to sleep is a real insult. It's a real offput for a girl to just roll over and slip into sleep. Try talking to her after hold hands, kiss. Or a good idea is to take a shower or bath together. A bath is more romantic. Wash eachothers hair. Girls love when you do their hair, and they also love it when they get to do yours too. They like to be caressed, cared for and talked to like people, and not used like objects. After the bath or shower, watch tv on the sofa in towels or pjs, make a really comfy and homey atmosphere and just make them feel loved. I'm a girl and if a guy just wanted me for my body, I would dump him so bad.

Go up her shirt, and dont let her stop making out with you, not even to lauhg or to tell you to stop , after a while shell get really turned on, then go V (down)