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Is it normal to think like this?

i love skating Asked by sk8ersocal over 2 years ago, 7 answers.

Ok, so me and my girlfriend have been going out for about a year and a half now, and im only 15. and things have been happening with us lately, and I talked to a few close friends about it, and they baught me condoms. and I feel really weird having them,...

and kind of perverted. but at the same time, I think its a good idea to have them, just in case anything ever happens. so is it normal to think like this? I feel so weird having condoms, but if anything ever gets that far, I want to have protection. what do I do? do I keep them, and just deal with feeling weird? or throw them out, and just not let things get that far? im confused about it. and im only 15, and I realize its young for that. but I also realized that its pretty easy to get carried away with these kinds of things. any ideas?
thanks

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Answered by bubux007 on Sep 12, 2007, 06:10AM
1959 answers

If you feel that condom is weird in your wallet I think it is better not to hold it with you. Finally, you may put a condom in a half year old boys diaper, it will not explode, but absolute unnecessary. If you do not feel the possibility of a penetration in the near future, a condom in his pocket is just a swagger. I think you have a classy style.

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Answered by andrewd93 on Sep 11, 2007, 09:25PM
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keep a few in ur wallet or summin, cuz if it DOES happen and ur NOT protected u are screwed. so its just a precaution and it's not perverted, i dont think so anyway.

you are young for sex but if it does hapen keep the condoms

hh Answered by oneheartnow on Sep 11, 2007, 09:27PM
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Better to be safe than sorry. Most 15 yr old males are very horny. At least the ones I knew were!

im a libra so wat Answered by saw3rules on Sep 11, 2007, 11:44PM
126 answers

keep them in your wallet cause if it does happen your screwed. and if she finds them tell her the truth or if you can think of a lie thats better than the truth and is believable then use that otherwise dont let your parents find em.

get e up Answered by escortagino on Sep 12, 2007, 06:57AM
318 answers

You are sending the signal that you and your G.F. are not ready for such a leap into the deep end of the pool. Put the condoms away in your bedroom somewhere safe. Like under the mattress or taped under a drawer; In a year or so you may be ready and if your G.F. realy wants to then you will both know that it is time. No need to rush into it just because your buds think it is cool.
Best to You both

Gino

me & my baby Answered by meryals on Sep 12, 2007, 08:40AM

just keep them on you! i got pregnant when i was 15. just keep the condoms on you! it's better to have them bc you never know what might happen! just make sure you use them! and maybe if ya'll do want to have sex talk about it first so she can get put on birth control! just be safe what ever you do!

beth

mamakat Answered by mamakat on Sep 12, 2007, 03:09PM
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I really like the idea of taping them underneath a drawer -- that way you can find them if needed , and it would be very difficult for anyone else to find them. I don't think you need to carry them with you, especially since it is making you uncomfortable with yourself. - If it's not your thing, then it's not your thing and that's fine - actually not just fine- it's GREAT! because you really are too young and it's cool that you are mature enough to realize it. Bubux said it best - you have a classy style!
As far as suggesting other stuff you guys can do, as the mother os an almost 15 yr old (you gave me some good advice about him, lol), I just cannot do that, lol... I wish you well and hope you continue to grow into a fine young man. happy

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