What should I do about my posessive boyfriend?

My boyfriend is a very jealous person. He knows who my ex is and if I don't answer the phone or I can't spend time with him, 'because I live with by parents. He accuses me of cheating on him. He'll say you out with him, or who knows what your doing. my ex lied to him and said that I was cheating on my current boyfriend, but I didn't. So what should I do or say when he says those rude comments. I usually say, I'm not doing anything or I didn't get your call, or don't speak to me like that you're not my father. What should I do or say?

This boy does NOT love you...jealousy is NOT love firi

Jealousy is a byproduct of one's own issues with self-confidence and self-esteem. Jealousy will be harder to control as the relationship progresses. When someone is extremely jealous they tend to want to control what you do, where you go, and who you see. Sometimes extreme jealousy can also lead to violence. If you are in a relationship where there is violence, read no further, it's time to end it. If you are in love with the person and don't want to let go, believe me when I say it is necessary. They will not stop without motivation.

It can be hard to see whether your boyfriend / girlfriend's behaviour is actually abusive, or it can be hard to find a word for it. They might try to convince you that their jealous and possessive behavior is because they love you. But this kind of treatment isn't love; it's control.

Jealousy and suspicion are the result of attachment and expectations, beliefs, projections, delusions, envy, guilt and a lack of self-esteem.

There is a difference between commitment and possession. The truth is that you are not in a loving relationship if you think that you must possess the other person. You cannot make a person love you.
Sometimes we suspect that our partner is being unfaithful because we are thinking about being unfaithful ourselves – or perhaps have already been unfaithful. Maybe someone from our past was unfaithful or someone from our childhood was hurt by an unfaithful partner, and so we "project" this onto our current partner.

People who love you will treat you w/respect, consideration, courtesy, honesty, and compassion. The sooner you wake up to the fact that the relationship is unhealthy, and move on, the sooner you life will improve!

If you are in a relationship with a partner who is jealous, be sure you aren't giving them a reason to feel that way. If you aren't, then talk to them and let them know that it is driving you away. Don't say what they want to hear and then just do what you want even if it is innocent. If they find out, the jealousy will become even stronger. Stand up to them and let them know that you won't accept it and help them find ways to overcome it.

this guy really loves u & is over possessive & he knows abt your past so make him understand to be patient! his att is natural!