What should i say to get him to stay?

My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. We tend to argues a lot, but when we get along we REALLY get along. I love being with him. He makes me so happy, but when we fight I feel like he doesn#039;t care about me because he says some...

pretty mean and nasty things. He has had a problem with trusting me for a while now. And, I can#039;t lie, I do somethings he has asked me not to do (ex: he doesn#039;t want me to talk to boys, but at work there are men and we do converse). About two days ago he found out that I lied about some where I went with one of my friends (it was a female). Even though it was small he said that he didn#039;t know if we could be together anymore. I have told him like 20 times that I would never lie to him again, and this time he doesn#039;t want to hear it anymore. But there is a difference in my promising not to lie now, I realizw that I cannot be without him. I love him entirely too much to lose him over a stupid lie. I swear I want to be honest with him. But he doesn#039;t know if he wants to go back out with me again. What can I say to make things better and convince him that I am serious this time?

It is hard when you care that much about someone to see the quot;forest from the treesquot; as the cliche#039; goes... You lied because he would not understand or want the truth that you are not a pet, but a human and can talk to anyone you choose. If someone tells you not to speak to __???_____(Fill in the blank with any group that you want) they are insecure and controlling, right? and you would not want them as a friend? Because it is your boyfriend you cease believing in your right to free will? Normal social behavior? Be glad you only dated a year. To answer your request - you should say to him quot;thank youquot; for showing me that I want to be with someone who can handle the truth.

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