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Hey my stepdad and mum are having a break from each other just now because my stepdad is hitting my mum. My mum loves him so much but I just want her 2 stay from him because he keeps calling me and leaving voicemails saying hes in love with me and he really has feelings for me and its making me sick the thought of him feeling like that for me and I'm scared if I'm left alone with him when I see my mum he's going 2 do something 2 me. He's 50 and I'm 19. Its all freakin me out and I feel like its my fault have I done something 2 give him the wrong idea. Help me what shall I do? What if she takes his side? Am so disgusted he's a horrible old man. :(
agreed with ty it's not your fault. He's 50, he should know better. Sound like a disgusting pervert! SAVE the voicemails. Wait till you're alone with your mother and show her. DON'T delete the voicemails, SAVE them. Next time he calls tell him you're not interested. Make it transparently clear that you do not have any romantic feelings for him and do not wish to get involved. If the calls continue, or if he tries anything, call the police. Make sure you have witness or to, perhaps record it when you tell him that you are not interested incase you've to go to courts. If the calls continue or his actions suggest he's going to try something, call the police.
You dont need to blame yourself at all. It's his fault for leaving and hitting your mum. My mum was going thru the same thing with my dad. He was beating her and left. But I highly doubt you did anything to lead him on like that. Men are men they like anything thats has a anything other than a duck between there legs. Your probably really pretty and he can't help his self. But you really shoudl tell your mom about this I doubt she would be upset. Just tell her your scared that he will try and hurt you or try things with you that you don't like and that you think is wrong. she should understand.
Not your fault. He's the adult and he should know better. He's a disgusting horrible old man and this is definitely not your fault. It doesnt matter what he says (some of them are pure evil and will try and blame the kid), but NOT your fault. Keeps the voicemails. Show them to your mom. And call the cops and get a restraining order. That way you keep him away from you. I cannot promise that your mom will take your side. But nonetheless she needs to know.
He needs to learn boundaries, make this as clear as glass. Make a call to the police if you feel yourself being sexually threteaned by him (dont wait for him to physically touch you). Also your mother should be well aware of what he is saying to you so even though she might be far away she can have somone nearby keep a close on him to keep you safe.
He is sexually threating you.IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT!!!Save the voicemails and show your mom AND your stepdad together and your mom will get the idea.Don't let your mom leave you alone with your stepdad!!!Oh!Idea!Ask your mom if you can go to a friend's house and if you can go,CALL THE COPS!!!Don't let your stepdad go near you!!!Good Luck!!!
first thing you shuud do is not tell your mom until later because shes gonna ask him about it and like a fool he is he'll probably deny it. go get sum help a den talk to your mom if you need to. dont wait til its too late because you never no what he might try and do.
That's scary!!! It's not your fault!!! Tell your mom!!! Your in danger!!! I need to stop yelling. Well yea tell your mom she won't be upset show your mom the voice mails! She will belive you! Tell tell tell
Don't be alone with him. Tell your mum and if he tries something bite him and kick him between the legs scream and call the police. He sounds a very sick creepy old man.
TELL YOUR MOM!! and call the cops before he calls you agian show hem the voicemails!!! And it's not your fault and it never will be
I would just go some where and don't say anything about where you are going and make it for like a month or 2 :)
call the cops your mom may be mad at you but she should get over it!.
