What should I do now??

I am trying to move on. I know it will take time to move on from Jeff. But it is so hard. Because it feels like that I have been dumped by him for another woman. But I don't think that relationship would work. Because he works a lot. I loved Jeff with all of my heart. I am with another guy myself.But this feels so hard. It seems like I still have a little bit of feelings for Jeff. I don't know why I feel this guilt that I should be with Jeff and not be with the one that I am already with. But the girl that Jeff is with they have been dating for a long time. Jeff and her has been off and on and off and on. I don't get that part. I don't think they are in a type of relationship that they are in. I have this kind of feeling that she is going to hurt Jeff. I don't want to see Jeff hurt. What if she does go right behind his back for going out with another guy that he doesn't know about and then finds out? I have a feeling that is what she would do to Jeff. Jeff would stand there telling her that him and her is over with for good. I have a feeling that they will break up. But I know that Jeff will have a broken heart after the break up. He will end up crying. Who would he end up crying to so his heart could mend and pick up the pieces for him? I don't know if that would be me or not. Why can this be so hard? What would I do? Should I tell Jeff the way I feel and even tell him what I think what his girlfriend might do. I need the help with that part. I have such a big heart and gave Jeff all the love that he needs. Would this mean that Jeff and I should be the ones together. Because I have a feeling that he feels the guilt to about me. What do I do about that? I am so afraid this is going to come up. Probably Jeff is not worth it. I probably am right about that part. I do want to move on. But I don't know why it is so hard to move on. What do I do now? I don't want to be obsessed about this either. What should I do?

You can't change what is going to happen between your ex and his girl, you have to understand you can't control these things. He will have to learn his own lesson on girls. Girls have a problem with when guys are out of there reach... or they can't have them, they want them more and more. Guys know this, but girls don't understand that. I would suggest either putting 100% into your current relationship, or break up with your current guy. Because you are going through to many problems with guys right now to be in a relationship, unless you are able to focus on your current guy and not continue to dwell on your ex.

Jason

If you dont want to be obsessing over Jeff, then get him out of your life. You are with another guy. You shouldnt be worrying about what happens to Jeff. Their relationship is none of your business! You arent letting yourself move on because you dont want to! Just start concentrating on your own relationship!!!