What should I do my wife is being bullied?

My wife is being bullied by several women in her coffee morning group> And yes I do realise that the situation seems a trange one. The root of the problem seems to be my wifes small size (only 5-0 and roughly 95lb) her friends and other women in the group have picked up on this and are always digging and sometimes being very bitchy, this was having an effect on my wife as she would get very nervous and quiet before the morning in question or any event they all share. I thought this was bad enough and I hoped it would die down as my wife seems desperate to fit in with these women (the children attend the same schools ect)and she said she would handle things. But I arrived home a couple of weeks back and witnessed one woman actually sitting on my wifes stomach/chest area as she pinned her to the floor, every one else was having a good laugh and my wife was trying to make out she was, to save face in some way but her humiliation was obvious not to mention her pained expression as this bigger woman was obviously hurting her. I have since found out that this is not an isolated incident and has happened a lot and is supposed to be funny, it is affecting my wife badly but she has pleaded with me not to say anything to any of her so called friends. I’m at a loss as to what to do?

Dave.

Answer #1

Ok thanks for the advice, my wife needs some self esteem as she has always lacked it, I think because she has always been made to feel inferior from a young age.

Answer #2

She needs to find some new “friends” that she can fit in with and aren’t mean to her. There is no need for her to keep putting herself through that. Just because y’all’s kids go to the same school and may/may not be friends, doesn’t mean she has to be friends with them. They probably bad mouth her in front of their kids too if they are being that mean to her. She should find some new people to hang out with… And I agree with haloyeah. Tell the police or something. Get a restraining order maybe.

Answer #3

well… if they keep doing it then you need to tell hte police, they are bulliying your wife and latter on that can affect her emotionally… The police would put a stop to this woman and also make sure that they don’t bully anybody else…

Alsi if your kids go to the same school as the womans kids then your kids would have a chance of getting bullied too… Bullied should never be sopported, not even adults so tell someone, the police would be your best option…

GOOD LUCK:)

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