What should i do im 14 and may be pregnant

I posted one before but I needed to add to it ok so im 14 and got of my period about a month and a week ago or something and I still havent had my period I dont know if I am pregnant or not but if I am I kinda want to have a abortion but at the same time...

I want to keep the kid. my boyfriend the one that might have gotten me pregnant or my x boyfriend is 16 and my parents hate him with a passion. he is emotionally abussive and controling me and him went threw a lot. I dont thikn he would help me support the kid I I had it. thats what im scared of. I dont know what to do. I dont want to tell my parents but theres no way I can get any help unless I tell them someone please help me
how do I tell my mom I think im pregnant??
how do I tell if im pregnant??
and just help me however you can
thxx

along with that I also need help with that kid. im madly in love with him but im no logger aload too see him and my parents might get a restriaining order on him if they did that would the county take the restraining order of so he could help me raise a kid??
please help on this too thx

Take a pregnancy test. Buy one at the store, and take it in a public bathroom, no one will ever know. Or develop recurring headaches so you can tell your mom you need to see a doctor.

Make and appt with your doctor to talk about the pregnancy if you are pregnant, or about birth control if you are not.

Find an adult- your doc maybe- that you can talk to about your choices, not just about sex. You need someone you can trust that can help you go over your options, talk about what might happen if...

Oh yeah, dump that abusive boyfriend for good. Guys like that will ruin your life.

well..sometimes a woman can tell personaly by frequnt peeing and your period if you skipped it....look dont have an abortion you would be killing a part of u .....something thats living and devloping inside of you ......being pregant is a special thing ,tell your mom by saying i need to talk to u about something.then tell her (get a pregnancy test) that the only way for sure to know if your pregnant,and tell your parents that it might be him .they have to let him talke care of the baby .....
make sure he pays for his mistake..let me know......fun mail glitter

well honey...getn pregnant can be a great and wonderful experience or a terrifying experience! it all depends on how you mske it! im 20 and I have a son and may be pregnant again...its hard for me so I can imagine for u! the best thing to do is just to tell your mother...at the time of sexual intercourse you msde an adult decision and now you have to fce it as in adult. beleive me a pregnancy can make miracles like bringing together a family and a mother/daughter relationship! just buy an ept (one that brings 2 test) take 1 now and wait a week and do it again...if you are then take my advice from above and if your not...let that be a lesson learned and dont fall for the common guy trap ok honey!! hope it works out...good luk

wait till your next due on and take a test to keep your mind at rest are if your that worried just take a test but remember it may not give the right answer if its too early.. if hes like that youl probably be better off without him because yu need to be strong for yourself and your baby if you are he then may realise that he cant get away with pushing you around all the time I know you love him so it will be hard but you have to to be strong, even if he doesnt have anythin to do with either of you he canstill pay his way s it will be his child
if you are telling your parents is a good idea they may not be very happy about it at 1st but they will be the ones who support you and help you through it all. hope everythin works our for you hun