What should i do?....................i'm a little confused!!

Me and my boyfriend have been togetheer for a little over a year now and just recently he told me he needed space b/c of all the issues thats been going on in his life, about 2-3 months ago when the issues started I asked him if he needed space and he...

said no, so I thought everything was fine. When he told me he wanted space my heart just sunk,but its only until he graduates which means it would be a month...its been 2 weeks already and at first it was real hard for me b/c I missed him and was so worried about us probably not getting back together. He told me that while we are having space that we weren#039;t going to call eachother, talk very much, or spend time together...but the first week he called me and every since we#039;ve been talking like every other day. And he just recently came over my house two times this week.Im real confused, and told him this,and he explained or whatever but in a way im still confused. Then he need a little finanical help and I was so bitter on giving it to him b/c I dont want to be nore feel used, I#039;m not used to getting advice but I#039;m welling to accept it if it#039;ll help ease my mind.

It might just be that your boyfriend is sort of feeling the same way you are, missing you and fearing that you might not take him back after this break. Its hard to say without knowing the whole story, but if I was in a 1yr relationship and I worked up the nerve to ask my girlfriend for a break that I felt I really needed, I assure you I#039;d be really nervous about how she#039;d take it, and whether at the end of the break she#039;d even be waiting for me. Hope that helps you at all

I think that he has no clue what he wants. He sounds contrary. He wants you there but not there ya know? He needs to make up his mind and decide what he wants a girlfriend or a friend in you. Don#039;t chase him don#039;t play his games he needs to make up his mind and unfortunatly you can#039;t do it for him. Besides in a real relationship he should and you should be able to talk about anything and you should be best friends and best friends talk and help each other on issues so he needs to open up to that trust me it is not you or what is wrong with what you are doing it sounds like you are patient and this guy is insane and on the verge of sending you over with his trips. He should be able to stand on his own two feet and not yours. He needs to manage his money better instead of coming to you after all what do you look like a bank! You are not responsible for him you are not married you are not his ma ma and you are not a bank he needs to deal with that. It sounds to me like he playing emotional games with you. Too many head trips to many games...... NO MORE GAMES PARCHESSI!! I know that it is easy to say drop him because I am not you but at the same time I am in a simular game playing postion and you know what save yourself. Other wise you will grow to hate him and you will have lost any respect for him and trust me it sucks to have a man you hate to be around you hate to hear and you hate to touch. Don#039;t get stuck because you will.