What should I do about him?

Okay I met this guy last year and he flirted w me a lott! then I told him I liked him…he didtn make it awkward, but then we didnt flirt as much and didnt talk as much it was different than before…but over the summer we talked a little more and he came 2 see me at work once! but I kinda kept getting mad at him for stupid stuff and I think I kinda pushed him away a little! and we text everyday, he starts sometimes, but its mostly me being first! and we got to know each other better adn talk about more serious stuff…but what should I do? should I keep doing wha we do, or should I try to text less and let him be first? im just scared that he might not even talk 2 me if I dont text first, but im not sure bout that! I want him 2 just be the same like last year…and how do I stop wanting to text him if thats the best way to go???

Answer #1

wow this happened to me to but we were going out. umm do u know if he likes you? I say dont text him 1st let him do it first I know how hard it is trust me but after a week you will feel so good because well you dont want him to think that you need him all the time. guys hate that. so play it kool. make him think that your not that interested in him as much. and if he likes you he will miss all your convos and will text you and if u make him belive your not as intersted his txts will be more meaningfull to try to get more out of you. then u can tell if he likes you. I kinda dont get what I just wrote.

Answer #2

You need to learn self control. You have to want to stop doing something in order for it to happen. Maybe if you stopped constantly thinking about him, you wouldnt have the urge to text him. Just let things happen on their own!

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