What should I do?

I'v been going out wth my boyfriend for about to be seven months, and he wnats me to loose my virginity to him. he keeps on asking me when am I going to do it, and I keep on telling him I dont know because I really dont, but it seems to me like h's getting fustrated. he thinks I just dont want to do it, and that I will never tell him when. he says he loves me ,and I tell him I love him, but he says if two people love each other then why cant they just do it. I basically dont want to have any regrets, you know what I mean. I want the timimg and evrything to be on point. he says he is faithful and true to me. he hasnt had sex with nobody in 9 months because of me. he says he changed because of me, and that he I s one woman man. he so called claims to know why I wont let him take my virginity, he says I think he will leave me, and he says that he wont. help me . do you guys think I should do it?

If he really HAD sex before, not with you of course, and you do not want to have sex with him, let's say "yet", then the clearest thing what you can do is telling him to find an other girl, let's say till you will be ready.

Absolutely not, Please don't do it you will ruin the relationship by having sex too soon. If he really loves you then he will wait, and not bug you about having sex with him. Think about it.... If you do it now then the both of you would want to do it all the time. SO sweetheart just wait and I promise you will have plenty of time to do that. I have been through it once and I wish I would have listened to them. I am not trying to preach to u, because I am very sure that someone has told you this before but I promise just think and it will come to you. I wish you the best of luck!!!!!

Just because someone is "labeled" your boyfriend or girlfriend doesnt mean you have to have sex with them. If he "loves" you like he claims he does, then he will love you even if you dont have sex!! Once a guy has had sex, he wants it all the time. Dont let him pressure you or talk you into it! Trust me>you will regret it! Hes not going to stick around forever! If you dont want regrets, then youll wait until you are engaged or married! Tell him its possible that 2 people can be together and NOT have sex >im speaking in terms of boyfriend/girlfriend relationships! And if giving up your virginity is that important to him, then hes NOT worth keeping!! Good luck hun>keep us posted!!!

I totally agree with the last two...true if two people love each other then there is nothing wrong with having sex...ask him if that's all he wants from you...You will feel much better if you have it when you are ready...who knows maybe he's not worthy of having your little gift...good luck

A relationship takes two sides and both sides have to want something. If you aren't ready, or you are unsure, don't let him guilt you into it! Tell him straight up your not ready and if he has a problem with it, discuss it.

Hope this helps.

It's completely up to you... this guy seem to be very pushy... and he shouldnt be. Now.. being a guy.. I knwo that sex is on our mind a lot!!! but if he REALLY loves you than he shouldnt be pushing you to do sumthing you really dont want to... he should love you enough to respect the fact that you may not be ready.... sex is not just pleasure... it is also something that may come and bite you in the ass when you get older.... so just keep that in mind... and tell him exactly how you feel.. dont let him pressure you to do it if you really dont want to!!

Ok, to begin with, DO NOT tell him to get another girl to do it with until you are ready like bubux said, that will totally destroy your relationship.
Now, I think that what you need to do is discuss with him why he is so intent on you two having sex. If he loved you like he says he does then he would be patient and wait for you, he would not be so pressuring. You wait until you are ready and DON'T let him pressure you in to it, that's not right.