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Should I move in with my older boyfriend?

Asked by parasiempre8 about 1 year ago, 2 answers.
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OKAY..
I LiVE WiTH MY MOM & STEP DAD..
& MY BOYFRiEND ASKED ME TO MOVE iN WiTH HiM..
I WAS LiKE I DONT KNOW..??
& H3 SAiD "WELL I THOUGHT YOU LOVED ME ALOTT??"
I DONT know iF I SHOULD OR NOT..??
iM BARLEY 17..HE'S 20 BUT,HE HAS HiS OWN CAR,HOUSE EVERTHiNG!!..
I JUST DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!!
SOMEONE PLEASE HELP!!

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Answered by llewellyn on Jul 19, 2007, 09:40PM
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If you're not sure, then tell him you want to wait and think about it. There's no reason to rush. He absolutely should not pressure you into something like that and pull that "if you loved me you would" garbage. It's a big decision and a big step in a relationship. Take your time deciding.

Answered by zonemaster on Jul 20, 2007, 07:00AM
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dump this loser fast. the "I thought you loved me" line shows that he doesn't really love you.

If he really loved you he would:
1. notask you to live with him without marriage
2. do what's best for you
3. not have unprotected s/x with you while you're still living with your parents
4. protect your virtue and reputation.

look, all this guy wants is easy access to an easy lay. find someone who will love you even if you don't spread your legs for him until your married.