Having a baby

so me and my girlfriend of a year are having a baby you would thank it is pretty simple Right not really I have a few issues I love my girlfriend to death and want to be there for here and I want to be there for my kid when he or she is Born but my...

parents have a issue with my girlfriend becasue she is Black and I am white and they want me to not help my girlfriend they want me to leave her and they say that if I don't leave her they will disown me and they say they do not want nothing to do with are kid I don't know what to do I really love my girlfriend but my family means the World to me and they were never really that happy that we were dating to start with should I be there for my baby or should I take my family's side and leave my girlfriend to take care of the baby very confused and I was thanking about other things to if I were to stay with her and help her raise are kid what would other people thank When we went out in public I just don't know pleas Help me I am really screwed

Your family is encouraging you to not be a man. It takes two to tango buddy, and it's your responsibiltiy.

no they just do not like her becasue she is black

I think you need to be a man and stay with your girlfriend and your baby ok. they will come around sometime but you cant leave your baby and you helped make the baby so dont hurt your girlfriend by leaving her with a baby please dont. oh you dont need to care about what other people think as long as your happy with your baby and girlfriend. and dont worry or be sacred because your not the only one. im going to a baby in 7 months and I have to plan a wedding in 5 months but if you want to take more funmail me ok BYE .

You cant worry about what your family thinks they will come around and if they dont thats their loss. My fiance is black and I am a white female, we are planning our wedding and trying for a baby. We want one so bad. But my dad doesnt approve and he dont want anything to do with my fiance, but me and him are close, I believe he will come around. Most families come around eventually and if they dont thats their loss. Family is important to me and but so is my happiness. Thats one thing you have to realize you cant abandon your girl and baby just to make your family happy, its about your happiness. And dont worry about what people think about it , its your life and you have to be happy. People look at me weird when im out with my fiance because of color for one but he is also a foot taller than me and he is older than me. I dont care what people think because im happy and that is all that should matter. Be a man and take care of your responisibitlities, and dont think about what people will say of think. Hope this helps you can always message me if you need to talk more on this subject or anything else you need to talk about. Hope this helps.