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Rawwr=] Asked by sisienne 9 months ago, 6 answers.

OK, so I know this is really long but please reaD it all.. So I was dating this guy who lives about 2 hours away from me. he came down every weekend to see me, but all a sudden he started breaking plans with me cause he couldnt hang out and he stopped...

acting like we were going out just randomly. my friend was dating his best friend and found out that her boyfriend was cheating on her. I asked my boyfriend SARCASTICLY But you have not cheated on me right? again I was being sarcastic and he was all well what do you consider cheating? and then he admitted he cheated on me and broke up with me. now he claims he is still in love with me but HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND!! and he moved down this past weekend just right up the street.. and he says we need to hang out and all this stuff.. and said he is willing to cheat on his girlfriend for me.. (btw his girlfriend right now is the girl he cheated on me with) but I still love him a lot and everything but I just dont know.. cause he acts like he only wants action but I have seen him a lot lately and he is SOO cute.. I just dont know.. im so confused! PLEASE HELP!!

ugh. me AGAIN Answered by xxangelcakexx on Feb 02, 2009, 09:39AM
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awww, sweetie. This guy may be cute but thats not the point.
If he says he's willing to cheat on his girlfriend.. doesn't that show you what kind of person he is?
He is totally not worth it.
He seems like a complete jerk.
You should move on. Don't speak to him or see him. It will make him see what he lost out on by cheating.
You need something so much more that this guy... your a beautiful girl... you could get any guy you want. =]
Kirsty x

hola :] Answered by moe214 on Feb 02, 2009, 09:39AM
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He's just using both of you. When you stand up for yourself, he'll respect you more..hopefully..=)

Gir rules. Answered by mikeh on Feb 02, 2009, 09:42AM
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Ask yourself what you want out of a relationship. If you want something purely physical with a serial cheater, it sounds like you've found the perfect guy for you. If you see yourself maintaining strong feelings for him and hoping against hope that he will change his ways and settle down for you, you're going to end up getting hurt. Over and over. And over.

If someone told you, My boyfriend left me to sleep with his ex and now they're together but he wants to sleep with me too, do you think you would say anything to them besides Stop being a doormat?

Answered by gurlrose on Feb 02, 2009, 09:43AM

if he really loves you and he really wants to be with you then you shud be able to break it off with the other girl and be with just you. you deserve some that puts there all into your relationship just like you.

Answered by duvek on Feb 02, 2009, 11:29AM
3 answers

well as a guy I would say he you truly love him you should give him a chance just as casual friends

Answered by yumyumx on Feb 02, 2009, 12:24PM
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I've been in this situation. your mind wants you to let go and move on to someone much better, but your heart just can't. I know you love him, but if you were to get back with him, he might start cheating again and you'll just feel even more hurt then before. I personally think you could do a lot better then him by the sounds of things, but only you can decide on what you want happy x

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