What should I do??

I just really dont know what should I do please help its hurting... I am in love with this girl and she loves me too. But the thing is she has a boyfriend and they have been together for 4 years now. I am only with her for 5 months. We have done it all. All the while the boyfriend is in overseas and now he is back. I used to work w her but now she has a new job and I feel that she is fading away from me. She still cant make up her mind who she wants to be with. She does tell me that she does not want to hurt him and she still has feelings for him. But she tells me that she feels more for me and love me more then him. What steps should I do?

Rethink this- if she was able to cheat on her boyfriend of 4 years, can you really trust she's not going to cheat on you? It's immature to cheat, she should have broken up with her boyfriend before doing anything with you instead of sneaking around in my opinion. It's a very common situation for a cheater to not know who to choose, but it's not fair to either men at all. She has to tell her boyfriend she cheated on him, and see if he is willing to stay with her after that- otherwise if she chooses him she will be living a lie. I'm speaking more in reference to the girl's actions then yours, because she's the deciding factor and there's not much you can do. Tell her you love her but it's not fair to her boyfriend and to you to keep you holding on much longer- she must make a choice. Can you see yourself with this girl for the rest of your life? If not, let go. Hope this helped

Why would you want to be with a girl thats cheated on her long time boyfriend? Is it because YOURE the 1 she cheated on him with? You 2 have done everything. If thats not enough to convince her to be with you, then your outlook doesnt look too promising!! Doesnt that tell you something?? It doesnt matter what shes telling you, because the fact of the matter is, hes back in the picture, PLUS..she still has feelings for him>and you seem to be fading out!! If she loves you more than her boyfriend, then why cant she seem to make up her mind yet? Sounds like its just a waiting game now!!

Well, this girl has at least 2 b/fs, and you are one of them.
It is not customary but happens maily when a young girl's b/f is on leave for a longer period. Think of e.g. the war-fiancees'/soldier-wives' histories, etc. You can do only ONE thing: to be NOT jealous.
Yes, in this situation a girl can have feelings to 2 b/fs