What should i do

I live in apartment with my son, husband, and father the apartment is always dirty and when I ask my father to wash his dish or to get up for the couch cause I need to clean he gets mad and tell me he is going to get out of the house and live somewhere...

else and it hurt cause I dont do anything or tell him anything and then he goes and tell my family that he is getting out cause I pressure him to much which its sad cause I only thing I tell him to pick up for himself and thats it. The other part is that my brothers are against me cause of his dumb things he saids about me which I only thing I try to do is make him happy and help him

well leave everything of urs and his around the house and see how he lks it and if hes says look at this or something to do with the mess say this is why I ask you to do urs now im nt doin urs or mine c how you lk it if you don't live how I live IN MY HOUSE thn go because im nt living lk this and if you say 1 mre thing bad abt me thn ill do the sme and ulll no abt it hope I helped =D

well... I know that you love him and that you want the best whit him! but sometimes we also have to think the caind of lifestyle that we want. If he feels better whit your brothers and your brothers feel that you are treating him badly then have you brothers take care of him. Your dad is old enuff to know what he wants and to make his own disitions and understand things.
I'm not traing to be mean or anathing, is just that my mom is like that, way worse, I'm 14 and I can't do anathing about it and I had to become an adult fast but you can!

GOOD LUCK!