What is the best lube for anal sex?

me and my girlfriend have vaseline and a tiny bit of ky jelly, is that good or should we get something else?

1.) You should use a condom to prevent the spread of germs. The anus has LOTS of bacteria that are perfectly fine there, but will cause problems if transferred else where - so DEFINITELY NEVER go 'A' to 'V'.

2.) Not Vaseline or any oil based product for lube. It will degrade the above mentioned condom, and oil based lube inside your butt can sometimes cause problems.

3.) Get her relaxed. If she is anxious she will clench and then there will be much pain. Lots of foreplay. And that doesn't mean to diddle her for an extra 2 minutes. It means start in the afternoon. Maybe flowers. Dinner out, or a picnic that you fix. A movie or dancing. Plenty of hugging, kissing and whispering in her ear. Then somewhere where you won't be interrupted. I realize that you may not be able to do all this, but you get the idea.

4.) MOST IMPORTANT OF ALL. She has to control the pace AND be in complete control of whether to proceed at any stage.

Do all this and she might like it enough for encore performances.

Enjoy, and
Good Luck!!

get anal lube you can find it in porno shops. also get a butt plug because that will help open up the anal for easier insertion. just also get this stop called butt paste because that will also help with the insertion because anal can hurt and if you are not easy you can rip something. once you get it in there just hold it there for a minute before pumping