How do I say "no" to oral s*x with this guy?

this guy named kyle whos 18 laid with me in my sleeping bag and stuck his hand up my shirt and fingered me in my sleeping bag. also I gave him a hand job. twice. I think my parents are going to find out.I dont mind him fingering me but I don't know what kids at my school would think. and if I give him head next time he said he would eat me out. I dont want him to. I might meet him tonight at like 3. how do I say no! and what owuld you do if your daughter was getting drunk and doing this with guys?also I think I might have problems syaing no to a guy.

You would rather have guys use you, then have self respect? Its very easy to just say NO!! Either you ignore him, or you simply tell him you cant meet him! This kind of behavior will not get a boy to like you, or commit to you. All its saying about you is that you are easy, and you will give him what he wants! Something any boy will take, and then you wont here from him until his hormones start raging again!
This boy doesnt care about you, or even like you. There is really NO point to being physical with just any boy, because if theyre being physical with you, you can bet hes doing it with other girls just like you!!! Start respecting yourself. Get yourself into a commited relationship, with someone you truly trust before getting s*xual! Its just not worth the hurt, heartache., and ruining your reputation!

I don't know why that that is the title for this I didnt mean to put that sorry

well if you want to give him head just tell him that you dont mind giving him head but you would rather him not eat you out because your not ready for him to do that and tell him that you dont mind him fingering you its just you dont want him to eat you out yet.. and I dont think your parents will find out I mean like I am 15 going on 16 soon and I get drunk all the time and they dont know that I do that and when im drunk I cant really help what I do lol but my parents havnt found out yet so I dont think that you have to worry about that ... hope this helped ... let me know what happens... p.s there is nothing wrong with saying NO!

BrunetttSweetie

I agree with my colleague above. Would you do it if you weren't drinking. If the answer is no then it should still be no if you are drinking and what are you doing drinking anyway. Have some self respect. All you will do is get a name for yourself. How old are you really.????

As a mother I'd be horrified knowing that my daugher was letting herself be used sexually and didn't care. Next thing you know you'll be going for a pregnancy test or being tested for a STD. Please sit down and think carefully about what you are doing to yourself.

im almost 14.

You shouldn't be drinkingat your age and it would be nice to save your body for someone who really really cares about you, even if it means waiting a few more years. Casual s*x is cold s*x. Its so much nicer being in a relationship with someone and don't forget birth control, preferably condoms as they will protect you from pregnancy and STD's.

Respect yourself and your body, you will feel so much more better.

oohhh so this is what happend...
girl you are to YOUNG!
your 13 and he is 18...right?
why are you doing this?
im 13 myself...and yet, I dont even DATE yet!
why cant you just be a normal girl, who takes care of her self...?
I do, I take care of my self really good.
I see lots of cute guys...and yet I dont date them.
my mom would let me, but I just DONT, I say "no, im just gona wait till im older."
just have some self respect, ad think about it...well actually...no DONT THK ABOUT IT...u should already know that it is wrong.
but good luck, and I hope everything will turn out ok, and I hope you dont see that guy no more.

If he's that much older than you, the only reason he is doing things to you is because you're an easy victim, being 13. HE IS USING YOU.

And if you don't want to do something, it's as simple as that.. you just say NO. If he doesn't listen, he can get in VERY big trouble with the law, and even worse trouble since he's not a minor. That's years in jail right there.

Please, get some self-respect and be smart.