What is going on?

This is my problem. I was totally turned off by this guy b/c when i first met him I thought that he was trying to have sex with me or something. Then I talked to him on the phone and got to know him a little bit, but we were supposed to be just friends....

I just did not like him and he had an ex-girl that he was still associated with. So the more time we spent together the more we started liking each other and I have completely fallen head over hills for him. I think I love him now. Well for Thanksgiving he goes and spends his whole break with his ex and comes back confused. He is acting funny and distant now and I don't know what to do. I want him soo bad and want to be apart of his life and I think that its a possibility that I may never see him again. I am not even getting to spend as much time with him and the semester is over in about a week. My feelings are racing like a roller coaster and I need desperate help. I love this guy and I cannot live with myself if I let him go like this. Please help me!!

sweetie i really think u need to just tell him straight out how you feel, try to hang out with him more and get the point across, but dont pressure him into making a desicion. After you tell him how you feel and spend some time with him then back off for a bit so he knows what it feels like not having you around all the time and let him make his desicion. if he cant decide for a long time then maybe its not worth it. it shouldnt be that hard if he truly cares for you.

Wow you sound a little like me at the moment hmmm... its so hard.. have you tried to talk to him and explain how you feel? then again if he is confused and all it might make things worse and put stress on him... but i think you should tell him seriously he has to know... good luck...