What is going on with my love life ?

I was in love with my ex so much , I gave him evrything that I had and I would have done anythin for him
But we fell out and he cheated on me and I fell apart , and he proper broke my heart

Now 2 years on I found somebody , he makes me happy and treats me right , but I feel confused wheayer or not I love him , it feels rightto say it but something stops me , its like im scared to say it incase I get hurt ?
Or maybe I just dont love him ?

Dear daisybella16,
The problem is that in a relationship one sometimes loose their sense of self as you did in your first relationship. A woman has to remain independent, strong and with a big sense of purpose for themselves. This way we go through our relationships without the dread of them hurting us or leaving us, we know we can survive without them. So perhaps you are starting to grow up and are starting to see the difference in love and dependence on someone else. Take you're time with this relationship and work on your Independence.
Sue...good luck

its hard to say
only you know how you feel
you might still be a bit hesitant towards relationships, and scared of getting hurt or being cheated on again
or you might not feel that you love this guy
you need to work it out
ask yourself if you like/love this guy
maybe even write down all the possitives/negatives about your relationship together on a peice of paper
but you do need to make sure your over your ex
and you shouldnt want to be with anyone who doesnt want to be with you!

scared to love him? common, I've experienced it too. just give it time and if he asks why you won't say it just tell him you want to be sure you really do love him before you say it.