What to do if my crush has a girlfriend?

what should I do when I like this guy a whole lot but he has a girlfriend? they been together for almost a year but when he's around me he tell me how much he wants to be with me and how I make it really hard for him. I kinda feel bad because yesterday we kissed! what is a girl to do?

Leave it! Don't be his 2nd string(back up girl). Let him know that if he wants to be with you, he needs to man up and break it off with his girlfriend first. If you get involved before he breaks up with her, then you'll always have that weight on your relationship. If hes willing to go behind her back and get with you, then you also should consider what he'll do to you once he finds another cute new girl to pursue. Probably the same thing hes doing to his current girlfriend, fooling around behind your back. I know this because my brother was the same way to his girls. Good luck to you.

Dear shaylaorr,
If he is doing this behind her back then if he hooks up with you he'll do it behind your back. There is something wrong with a person who does not end one relationship before moving on to another. A boy with a girlfriend and girl with a boyfriend are off limits. If you are going after this guy also then you are not to be trusted either.
Sue...good luck

He has a girlfriend. Therefor he;s OFF LIMITS!!!
Leave him alone. Don't you think that if he REALLY wanted to be with you, he would've already dumped his girlfriend?
He doesn't really want you. He wants to be a cheater. Find someone who's really single, and who could actually respect you.

Real simple, like everyone has said, just leave him be. Let him choose and decide what he wants more in his life you or the other, or that so called "Jackpot" of having two girls. Honestly though cheaters are just that cheaters, and will always be who and what they are.They never change no matter how much they say they will and they will never leave the one they are with simply because of the fact...Why have 1 when you could have 2 or 3 or so on. Just sit back and think that if he is already doing this with you lord knows who else or what other games he is running on the side behind both of your backs. They just like to keep going and going untill they get caught. Then it's just like "Oh crap" when you and 5 other girls are standing around him. Just food for thought.

Mike

omg im actually going thru the same thingg..this guy I like had a girlfriend he cheated on her with me on ther one yr anniversary! dumbass! w/e point is he cheated on her with me for two months..he told me he wanted to be with me blah blah blah...sweet talk right?..I soon realized that we werent going anywhere.. we wer always friends wit benefits...fortunately I ended it..I told him that cheating can hurt people and that I can tell he really loves bc if he didnt he would have let her go...I told him that I didnt want to ruin that for his girl..

now im not a big fan of his girl because she has something that I want
but I still feel bad for her

..in the end he noticed that I had done the right thing..it really hurts leaving the person you care most about but if they are really interested they'll come back they always do =]=]