What has happened to my cousin?

Well, my cousin Sam, who is 19 now as always seemed to be my rolemodel since I was younger, however things seemed to change about two years ago. I lost my grandma in 2005, and since then, things have been a little strange.

My cousin decided to move out of my Aunt's house, (Who's her step-mom) while she was still in high school, to live with her mom, who's a total freakshow. When my cousin was just born, her mom decided to leave her and her dad and got married two more times. Her husband now apparently lost her job, and Sam had to pay the bills and work for them. She also lives in the house with apparently, 6 other siblings. Since then, it's been slightly bizarre everytime I see her.

She's not exactly the most responsible person now, and she's lazy as hell now. She doesn't work now, she dropped out the college for the semester, and who knows what she's doing now. It is so weird.

She was never like this beforehand. All I can say is, what the heck happened to my cousin?

DID YOU ASK HER ABOUT DRUGS ???

No, I don't recall asking her about drugs, but I don't think that's the problem. I don't think so at least.

..How can you blame her? She's obviously going through a REALLY tough time right now. I had it pretty bad about a year ago, and my brain just shut down. Lost motivation, was lazy, wasn't terribly responsible either. Cut her some slack. Once things pick back up again, she'll be ok.

Yah right..tell her how it is. it might hurt her feelings but it will be so worth it..she will thank u...She might be a little pissed but just do it...My real mom was the same damn way...I told her how it was...but before that...she lost everything she had...It had to be me to tell her that what she was doing was screwing up her life and that she needs to grow up and relize that people wont do sstuff for u!