Well, I have this friend with benefits. I trust him with everything, and hes soo cute.I love who I am when I'm with him. I honestly think the world of him, but we both arent good with dating. we kiss, makeout, fingering, and just recently he kissed my neck down to my chest, to my hips...he calls me cute, beautiful, and hes called me sexy. He doesnt disrespect me, and he always asks me if we wanna do something before we do it. And he always like t omake sure if its okay if he does it. I'm just afraid hes using me to get something.. What to think ?
It depends on a lot of things. If you guys are around the same age, everything sounds fine to me. If you're pretty young and he's a good amount of years older than you, I would think something's up. But he really does sound respectful either way, I would think you don't have anything to worry about. :)
Respect is fundamental in relationship, since he respect you its okay. You have to optimistic about the friendship. Give him chance, its rare to find such people around.
I'm just afraid hes using me to get something>>Using you to get WHAT? Hes getting it all without any strings, so what else could he possibly want?
thanks a lot hun for helping me(: we are around the same age. hes 1 year older then me, ahha.
