What do you think?

What does it mean when a guy tells you he wants you to be more open? There's this guy I've been talking to for a while (I was 17 when we met, now I'm 18 and he's 22) tells me that he wants me to be more open with him. I have no clue what that means. I've been told by friends, and I know this too, that I'm very insecure. I think I'm ugly but others tell me I'm not and I think I'm not good enough for anyone and I think I'm too fat (I'm on a diet and losing weight (yay!)), plus I never say how I feel about anything cause I trust no one. I don't know what it means to be 'more open' nor do I know how to be more open. I'm clueless as to what to do. I really like the guy, but I think he's married and all this other stuff (he says he's not and he wants me to stop thinking this way), but he always say he's 'busy' for everything. I don't think people can be that busy, and I've asked him this more than once, so I believe him. Anyways, what should I do?

I describe you in one word 'PARANOID'. That word determines your entire life as you live it. You are paranoid of everything around you and just need to calm down because life is just not THAT serious. I mean some things are but you make everything a life or death situation. Quit holding back because the more you do, the more people hold back around you because YOU make them not trust you enough to open up to you.

you're right

Ok im not a expert or anything.But its sounds like that you need to work on yourself before you start dating. im not trying to be mean but you have to many problems to be in a relashonship.When youre in a realshonship you have to meat the other person needs.right now you need to meat youres.Try takeing up a hoby that will make you push youreself @ gain confidence like running swimming etc.I wish you the best of luck!