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What do you do when your dad sexually touches you?

Fun day with my best friend Asked by fluteplayer 8 months ago, 16 answers.
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A couple of nights ago when my dad was really REALLY drunk, he started touching me when I was sleeping. I tried to act like I was sleeping but he started to go into my pants and underware. He then relised I was on my period but I was using a tampon. He then started to rub me down there. I started shaking because I couldent believe what was happening. ( FYI. A few hours before my dad had punched me in my arm twice. There is a bruse now)
well after my dad was done I got up and went to my room because I was in the livingroom. I tried to sleep, it was really hard but I did.
I didnt get up till 2 in the afternoon because I knew I had to face him. I told him my arm hurt (because of him punching me) and he asked why I told him and he didnt even remeber he did that.
My mom and Dad are fighting for custody rights and I want to live with my mom really bad.
What should I do? Please help me! =/

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Thunder Robot Answered by funadvice on Feb 04, 2008, 10:45PM
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I agree with mysticunicrn... this is really serious if you leave it next time it could go furthur then just touching... tell your mom ASAP before you end up raped

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Yes... I'm wearing a shirt. Answered by xxlovehurtsbabexx on Feb 04, 2008, 06:46PM
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Tell your mom... that's horrible.a dad should never touch his offspring sexually. Now.. since he was drunk.. that shows how much self control he has and how he really feels. Being drunk makes you have poor judgment... I'm so sorry this happened to you. Also if you can't tell your mom.. why not tell the custidy people or another trusted adult?

Thunder Robot Answered by funadvice on Feb 04, 2008, 07:24PM
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you need to tell somebody soon cause you never know how far hes going to go next time hes drunk he might rape you!!! tell your mom im sure she will understand and she will get you away from him...

lucky boy Answered by kaitygirl5 on Feb 04, 2008, 09:05PM
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yess! tell your mom..thats the only thing to do..aww I feel so bad for you. best of luck

My photo Answered by mysticunicrn on Feb 04, 2008, 09:25PM
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Tell someone, but don't do it when you are fighting with anyone. If you want to tell your mom let her know that you want to talk to her privately and tell her exactly how it happened. You dad being drunk is no excuse for what he did. Good luck to you and I hope everything works out.

me Answered by winsten16 on Feb 04, 2008, 09:55PM
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well if you want to live with your mom 4 sure you can tell your mom and she can do something abotu it or try CPS ..they will could help as well...

Answered by bargain_brat on Feb 05, 2008, 05:08AM
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make sure you arent lying because you want to live with your dad. (I mean REALLY make sure), then tell your mom.

Answered by karmesha on Feb 05, 2008, 08:23AM
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Tell a counselor at school about the bruise, when she reports it tell everything.

Bunny Luv ! Answered by shellylynn on Feb 05, 2008, 10:59AM
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OH GOD !!! SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT THAT...THAT IS THE MOST TRAMATIC THAING THAT I COULD EVER IMAGINE...

YOU MUST CALL THE POLICE...GET RECORDS ON THIS MAN,,,I DONT CARE IF HE IS YOUR FATHER...THAT IS WRONG AND TOTALLY DISCUSTING !!!
HE WILL DO THIS AGAIN,,,
CALL CHILD PROTECTIVE SERVICES...LET THEM KNOW WHAT'S GOING ON...
TELL A RELITIVE, AND AUNT,,,COUSIN,,,TELL A friend...TELL THEIR MOM...YOU MUST NOT HIDE THIS,,,MANY GIRLS ARE AFFRAID THAT THE DAD IS GOING TO "GET THEM" BUT IN REALITY,,,HE WILL DO IT AGAIN, BECAUSE HE JUST GOT AWAY WITH IT THE OTHER NIGHT...
MEN ARE ALWAYS HORNY,,,YES, I KNOW, ITS TOTALLY GROSS, YOU MUST TAKE PICTURES OF YOUR ARM & BRUISES...CALL THE POLICE NOW !! DONT WAIT ,,,TELL YOUR MOTHER...I FEEL VERY BAD FOR YOU...

Answered by ices on Feb 05, 2008, 11:02AM
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Darling, you need to tell your mother what happen, please please please, tell her, don't let him get away with it, he is just acting like he dont know what he done because he was drunk, he knows, the next time maybe he will not just touch you, he may just rape you, then what? what if a child comes from the rape, the best thing is to tell your mother, and then to tell your father, you love him as a father, but you no longer trust him, and wish not to be alone with him.

Answered by jay_007 on Feb 05, 2008, 02:24PM
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please tell your mom she wont get mad at you, you will be able to live with her for sure then, and then you get to be away from him, and he wont do it again.

Fun day with my best friend Answered by fluteplayer on Feb 05, 2008, 05:39PM
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Thank you everyone.
I'm scared now its a little too late because it happened like 3 days ago. I will try to tell my mom but I'm scared now she will get mad at me because I didnt tell her sooner.
Thank you so much for the concern. I thank the Lord for the nice people out there who acually want to best for people.
Thank you so much for the courage.

Answered by jay_007 on Feb 06, 2008, 09:07AM
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she will not get mad at you!!!, you are her daughter, she will want to protect you, its never to late!!!

Thunder Robot Answered by funadvice on Feb 06, 2008, 04:41PM
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I AM REALLY SORRY TELL YOUR MOM OR TELL A TRUSTED ADULT
I HOPE THIS NEVERS HAPPENS AGIAN AND GOD BLESS.

-POOKA

Answered by gequitaw on Mar 14, 2008, 05:28PM
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How old are you? It is never right for a adult to touch a child, never, never right. If you go to DCS they will investigate, if you go to the police, they will arrest him. I work with children everyday who are abused and it is never their fault, (like the molestor) will make them feel. Have you talked to your mom or grandparents,or a trusted relative. Sometimes it helps to talk it out, that way you don't feel lime its your fault, it gives you the release you need to vent. I will pray that your dad will get out of your life or you get a way to get out of the situation. I am so sorry for this, you should not have to live like this.

Answered by gequitaw on Mar 14, 2008, 05:32PM
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How old are you? It is never right for a adult to touch a child, never, never right. If you go to DCS they will investigate, if you go to the police, they will arrest him. I work with children everyday who are abused and it is never their fault, (like the molestor) will make them feel. Have you talked to your mom or grandparents,or a trusted relative. Sometimes it helps to talk it out, that way you don't feel lime its your fault, it gives you the release you need to vent. I will pray that your dad will get out of your life or you get a way to get out of the situation. I am so sorry for this, you should not have to live like this.

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