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Most women snoop a little. See if you can find any sex pictures on his computer? If you do save the sexiest one as wallpaper and see if he wants to talk about it?
Gino
Yeah, you were snooping, so if you don't want to bring it up, you have to let it go.
Ideally, you should confess to him, apologize, and let him react. But take comfort knowing that since the pictures were dusty, he hasn't been 'using' them for a while.
wow you have done well not to burn the bloody things! I recently snooped through my boyfriends computer files and found nbormal pic of him and his ex and im still pissed off that he hasnt removed them!
if I were you id tell him I'd found them, your sorry for snooping but now hes with you he has no right to keep those pictures!
You have no right to make a judgement on those photos. Everybody knows that in sex everything is allowed if both participants likes it. In fact it is not a reason for a glory that you were never snapped in a hot situation. And since those photos belong to the life of your b/f he has full right to keep them forever. It is not possible and not honest to throw out every pics form the past when somebody starts a new relationship. Our past belongs to us. Some g/f are hot, and others are less hot.
Hehe oh its funny isnt it, I've done that a couple of times...'snooping' as they say, and I know its wrong but curiosity gets the better of me.
My last boyfriend kept a photo of his ex all the time, I found it one day (yes I know its bad) and felt kinda weird, but I guess you just have to respect people's privacy!
I hate it when people look through my diary and stuff, maybe put yourself in his situation...how would you feel if he found naked pictures of you and your ex?
Would you be mad he was looking for them in the first place? Or embarassed, or upset? Do you know why they broke up? Is he still friends with her? If it was a messy break up and he hates her, I doubt he would look at the photos again.
Men are all the bloody same, they are very visual and sad as it may be, will look at other women (90% of their brains must be thinking about sex all the time lol)
But it's all about trust! If those photos were dusty, maybe he hasn't bothered with looking at them in a long time because he has better things to do...like be with you!
Having great sex with someone you adore and love is so much better than looking at your naked ex girlfriend...I mean come on! But I can understand why you feel weird about it.
I would just leave it to be honest, and maybe add a sneaky little conversation about ex'es one time if the oppurtunity pops up, and if you start talking about sex or something, hint on home made videos or photos, but dont make it overly obvious...I dont know! I'd be very confused if I saw what you have, but guilty with myself for looking too...but hey we all do it.
Hope this has been somewhat helpful!






What do I do about these naughty photos of my boyfriend and his ex?
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Okay...so...my boyfriend of six months left me at his place for a few hours by my lonesome. Prior to me, he dated someone for 6 years. They never got married...but it's been difficult to not wonder about their relationship. So...I snooped. I shouldn't have. I've kept every photo of my ex...but I'd never allow any boyfriend to take photos of me in a sexually vulnerable position. In the dresser next to his bed, I found 5 or 6 photos of his ex in different sexual positions and penetration...etc. Anyway, it's my fault. I'm so disgusted though. The photos were about three years old. They broke up last December. It took everything in my power to not throw them in the fireplace and resurrect them to hell...but neither do I like the idea of him keeping them. I don't know. The drawer itself was dusty...so were the photos. I know I shouldn't confront him...but should I just let it go? I don't want him to know that I was snooping...so that would be my only option, right? I've been with other guys...I just haven't taken pictures of my sexual escapades. Thanks All!!!