How to get him to trust me?

Here's my story in a nutshell. I have in a relationship for 2 years. I has had it's rocky moments for the most part, but has had it's sharof good moments. In the beginning of relationship, I have lied to my boyfriend aut several things including: I didn't tell him about guys that I talke before him, I have had feelings towards someone while being in a relationship with and lied about that, I have even lied about being in love wth him, and that broke his heart. We've had arguements on several occasions about this and sometimes I walk out because I get upset, and more importantly, I get upset with myself. This has lasted for quite sometime. This caused him to lose trust in me in everything concerning other guys.

Now, I have have made a serious change, I am not lying to him, I can say that I'm truly in love with him, but the accusations will not stop. Even when he's gone for 5 minutes thinks I'm cheating. When we spend the night together, he thinksI leave in the middle of the night to have sex and I DON'T! I am completely faithful to him, and he doesn't see that I have made a real change. Granted I still leave from time to time because I can't take it, but I don't do anything against him. I just be to myself and think.
He has accused me of cheating for the past year in a half, and I feel that I can't take it anymore. I know that the lies hurt him, but I HAVE BEEN 100% FAITHFUL to him. He's called me names including a slut, cheating, etc. I understand that I hurt him but how long itis suppose to last? Should put up with this? He accusses me and it hurts me to my heart. I'm tried of being called something I'm not. What showuld I do? What should I do if I'm constantly being accused of cheating when I'm not? I need some SERIOUS AND HONEST advice immediately.

Well, the name calling and accusations are definately uncalled for! It sounds like you have been in a 2 year relationship 1 1/2 years too long! I don't think you should put up with that and you just need to sit him down and give it to him straight. Tell him that you are NOT happy with the way things are going and that you can't be in an abusive relationship any longer! Tell him that you may have made mistakes in the past, but you have changed and it still isn't helping his attitude towards you! Just let him know you love him, but you can't be with him anymore! He is ruining your self esteem and making you feel like you are walking on eggshells, and nobody can live like that! I hope you do the right thing because you two aren't even married or anything and he is being very controlling, jealous, and verbally abusive... if you don't do something about it now, it will only get worse! Good luck!

you shouldn't be with him, but if you really want to, call the maury show. I'm SERIOUS they always have those specials where the boyfriend is accusing the girlfriend of cheating and they give the girl a lie detector test and read the results. DO IT!!!