What do girls like to talk about?

For all of you girls out there I know that there has been a guy that just dosn't know the right things to say around a women or has no idea what to say. So I am asking what conversation strikes your interest?

I like to talk about myself. I never want to talk about your ex, my ex, pending divorce, etc. Please don't lie to me about how much money you make. So many times men tell women how much they are "worth" and much to our dismay, we find out later they are in debt up to their eyeballs. If you are broke, say so. If you have a job, awesome. Just don't tell me what you do all day at work. If you have children, talk about them. Let me talk about mine. Never tell me about how so many other women have complimented you on the size of your member or how they praised you in bed. Don't ever discuss your bathroom habits with me. I will never want to see your "prize winner". I promise. Don't tell me you love long walks on the beach and romantic, candle-lit dinners and blah, blah, blah. That does not impress me and if you tell me that because you THINK I want to hear it, you are wrong. If you REALLY like that kind of thing, show me. Sometimes I think it would be better to hear complete honesty from a man than all the hyped goo you think will impress us. Like this, "I am broke and I moved back into my parents house. I fart a lot and I think it's funny. I scratch my balls often and I would much rather you suck my ___ than have sex. I never want to help you around the house. I drive a crappy car and I if I ever take you out to eat, it might be to McDonald's. My ex wife is nuts and she will probably harass you. I scratch my butt and pick my nose. I snore like a bear. I really don't care about how your day was and when you cry, it makes me want to get far, far away. I will never talk about my "feelings", so don't ask me to. I will never bring you flowers and I will always forget your birthday and anniversary." That does not sound like a good catch at all. He has got one thing that a lot of men don't, though. Honesty. Don't talk about Bush and all the terrible things you think he is doing. If we want to know what you think about something, we will ask you. Talk about your mom. We say we don't care for mama's boys because they are such babies, yet we are touched slightly when a man shows concern for his mama. If you have experienced tragedies or have a dying family member save those conversations for a relationship, if one develops. If you are athletic, say this. An outdoor's men, great. Just don't tell me something you are not. If you go to the gym 5 days a week for 6 hours a day, that is fine. But you don't have to tell me all about it because you think I will be impressed with your muscles. I'm not. It will make me think you are into yourself too much and I don't want to bother with the competition. Women are impressed with complete honesty. And never forget to let us talk about ourselves. Finally, if you are married, being separated still counts as being married, don't talk to us at all. Does this help any?

it depends on the girl. all girls are differnt, but we usualy have similar interests. but if your trying to start a convo up with a girl, you might want to start by finding out what shes into and what she likes, then bring it up.

yea just like the person said. dont go up talkin abt urself.. ask her question and show your interest but dont always try to please her just be a guy and at theasame time a gentle man show her you are interested and remember this is just the first day

most women these days are into men that can have intelligent, and or intellectually stimulating conversations. We dont like hearing all about the ex wife, or ex girlfriend that hurt you so bad- all the time. thats a part of your past, and it made you who you are today. Tell us what takes your breath away. the things that give you motivation and drive. sometimes we want to know what makes you tick. most ment these days are a little demanding. you have to give to get. its a 2way street. compromise, trust and understanding.

I have a question... I am a shy guy and I really like this girl, and she likes me... so I never now what to talk about... what can I say I am always nervous when it comes to girls, and I have already told her that I like her. we see each other all the tine since we go the same university, and I always ask questions but she doesnt tell me enough, and all the time she is quiet when she is around me...Also her b-day is coming up during this week, and she wants this build a bear, but she hasnt told, so I had to find out about that from her friends.. why is this? can you give me some tips? ooh and I am going to ask her if she wants to be my girlfriend during her b-day since I am taking her to the beach...