What could i do to make myself pretty?

I'm sick of the old, weird looking me. What could I do to make myself pretty in the least?

Emma,
Your body is changing the way it was intended to. Having been through anorexia and bulemia (I thought, wow - dream come true - to just lose weight, lose the desire to put evil food in my mouth, etc.) Well, it was a dream come true for about a month. Then, I got to where I couldn't make myself swallow. I finally saw a doctor when I started having chest pains. I felt like my entire life was out of control and all I could control was what I ate. Now, that I have recovered and gotten older, I am glad I stopped the anorexia because if I had died, I would have missed my first real kiss, prom, my son being born, getting married, seeing friends I love getting married - my whole life, I would have missed it - because I wanted to be thin. It's not worth the trade off.
As for your looks, what about changing the hair - different style or color (if mom and dad let you - mine would have had a major fit if I messed with the color). But if you go to a good salon, and include mom (unless she's a total shrew - but ask her advice. She doesn't know what you're going through so she'd probably love to have you ask her advice on anything. I know when Chris was your age, he finally asked me about his hair. I helped him dye it blue.) Give mom a try. What's the worst that can happen. She says no and you're no worth off. Besides, she probably knows a good place that will do a good job on your hair. DO NOT CUT IT YOURSELF -TRUST ME ON THIS ONE, IT ISN'T WORTH THE RESULT!!! (I looked liked a cracked out squirrell...) Also, if you have really good skin, add some clear lip gloss. And if you can, a little mascara. Most of all, let the Emma inside out. I bet you are funny and kind and if the cool girls don't think you're cool enough, its because they're just too ignorant to know better. They are pneumocephlytic (new-mow-sef-lit-ic). Medical for airhead. You are on the crux of womanhood and your hormones are doing the krunk. As an average looking teen (not a dog but not pretty, I ended up with some pretty amazing friends who liked me for me. For my humor. For the fact I walked into walls - yes, true. For the fact I had no clue how to dress or do my hair (my mom was pretty old when she had me so she was pretty clueless). But I look back on those days - and some of them sucked - and there were good times. Me, the average me, fell in love with a guy named Vince. I didn't think he even knew I was alive. One day, my best friend goes, Vince really thinks you're cute. Me?! No makeup. Not cool. Me, whose birthmark was a double earlobe, so I was a freak? Not pretty. ME?! But sure enough, Vince liked me. He liked my laugh. He liked my eyes. He liked I wasn't all made up, but natural. And he kissed me on the Fourth of July the moment the fireworks went off (no lie). For that moment, the world stood still. You have those moments coming. A guy who will see your beauty, Emma. The real kind, not the implants or makeup or being a slut. The you. And ask mom about the hair. Give her a chance. You can do this, Emma. You know what your name means? Universe. Wow. Pretty strong name. My name has two meanings: Plain, like a stretch of land and Princess - so I'm a plain princess. I think I'd rather be universe. Write back, Ok? I believe in you and I want you to believe that you aren't weird looking and that you are pretty.

Impossible to answer, not having any idea what you look like right now.. Wish I could help..

I'm sure you are pretty now... Maybe you just need to work on your confidence. =)

You could give yourself a little mini makeoever.. And, experiment with different styles and makeup, until you find something you like.

Best wishes to you! =)

HI ITS LEANNE BODEN HERE you NEED 2 AV MORE SELF CONFIDENCE I BET your BEUTIFUL your A TEEN NOW AND your going to FEEL UGLY I DID you CANT MAKE your SELF LOOK DIFFRENT BUT IF you AV MORE CONFIDENCE ULL FEEL BETTA please WRITE BCK TO ME ILL HELP YA LEANNE IM 13ASWELL

u should try a makeover, you should go on a shopping spree,clear your old and weary wardrobe get some new clothes,makeup,shoes,u should try giving yourself a haircut and maybe dye it blue.

you are who you are but a new make over wouldnt hurt, try a new hair style, new clothes, and new makeup style. what ever makes you comfortable.

umm your not weird looking hun... besides, your only 13 and 13 yr olds are supposed to look the way they naturally look.

you should try maybe a new haircut and wax your eyebrows. also natural looking make up is good too. although you will/might do several things to your outer appearance, its the confidence within you that makes you pretty and/ or beautiful.
=)

We have all went thru the ugly duckling syndrome. From what I can see in your picture you are already turning into a beautiful swan.

What to do to make your feel better? Try a new hairstyle, I think something with layers would look great on you. Since you are 13 see if mom will let you have some lip gloss and a little eyeliner. Don't overdue it on the eyeliner. And maybe a light coat of mascara. 13 is the age my mom let me start with make up and it is the age I let my daughter start too.

Most of, relax and enjoy your teen years as much as you can, you'll never get the back.

You are an individual, you are unique, you are pretty, you are still young, you are still developing. Please don't compare yourself to your friends.

Highlight your good points and cover or work on your flaws, both in looks and personality.
(That last bit was advice from my wife)

get some confidence and you'll be gorgeous.

xox
Sika