What comes next for us?

This guy and I have been talking at college for about a month and a half now and I am really falling for him, but the thing is that summer is coming up so he will go home and I will go home. I think he likes me because he is always the one to ask to do...

things and talks to me first on IM. Anyways, we are leaving in 4 days and I really want to see where we stand for the summer and then coming back in the fall to schol. So how do I go about asking him how he feels, without making me feel embarrassed at all and how do I see if he wants to continue to talk to me?

You didn't mention whether you will be in the same area this summer. If you are just ask him to have some drinks to kick off the summer together and say that you'd just like to hang out a bit and spend time. Then when you get together, start flirting and letting him know how you feel about him. Just be an adult about it.

If you're not in the same area this summer, wish him a lot of fun and say something like, You know, I've really enjoyed getting to know you this year. And if we're both able, I'd really enjoy spending more time together when we come back. Then just ask him what he thinks about that.

You know, one of the sexiest and most attractive things in both men and women is when they simply just state how they feel and what they want. Confidence will get you everywhere. If he's not into it, then it is what it is and you are free to move on. Don't torture yourself with thoughts and wondering, etc. I, for one, could never stand sitting around and not speaking my mind and wondering how he felt. Just ask. It's that simple. It doesn't need to have a fear factor due to the possibility of being rejected. We all get rejected sometime, we all reject sometime. Such is life.

Rejection is really just nature's way of helping you dodge a bullet. That's my motto. Grab the bull by the horns!