What cause you the most pain?

What would you say would be the one thing or the one person that has caused you the most pain? I read a similar question somewhere but I hated the answers. I am just feeling down and I wanted to know how people felt on this? Is there a moment in...

everyone's lives that they can point to and say that was messed up?

When I was younger, my dad used to slap me around a lot. He would tell me I was worthless, that I was dumb, ugly- whatever he could think of. When I'm home from college, he makes up chores and will actually purposely dirty the house so that I will not be able to go out, because I've got to clean up after him. Yeah, it's pretty messed up. Also, I was suicidal in 8th grade after being depressed for 2 years without my parents noticing, and when I told them that year they told me to suck it up and forgot about it- so I went on being depressed for another 2 years and then finally got help from a teacher. Yeah, it's pretty messed up- but what doesn't kill us makes us stronger, and I've learned a lot just like anyone else who's been through a rough time. Thanks for letting me vent

well for me was that i felt in love with this wonderful guy and well i love him but he wouldnt give me the time that i needed and he would make me feel unwanted and unappreaciated i mean i know he was a very busy man but i dont know i just felt like he just was using me or just playing with my feeling and inside i felt like dieing but hope kept me alive i just didnt gave up on him but well as time went by the situation got worst and well my heart just was truely torn and well i felt like giving up and at the end i gave up and that hurted the most that a strong girl like me had given up, but well now he said he wanted me back and we argued but we solved our prblem but honey whatever the problem is dont feel down life is too short to get upset laugh now cry later or just dont at all hun time will mend thing i promise thing in life get better if you wanted it to but to do this you need to participate too you need to make good choices in life, whatever it is hun dont feel bad it will get better, remember only you can make urself happy and you cant depends on someones help for ur own happiness just take it one day at a time and ur life will be great well good luck

I guess losing someone you love through death (my dad) or illness (my heart got broken when one of my boyfriends had a mental breakdown). Yeah, that sucked and was messed up but you know what, life goes on. And I agree with liluxo, life has it's bad trips but in the end we learn through them to be stronger and healthier people. In the end, we just got to hold on, do the best we can and move forward.