What are sure signs that your boyfriend might be cheating

I have been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years... honestly I really dont think he could have the heart to cheat on me but you never know... I sometimes feel like he isnt in love with me anymore or that he is just tired of the whole relationship thing...

altogether but then he changes days later and acts like he is so in love with me he is one way one min then the total oppesite the next.. I am so confused please help I need all the advise I can get.

It is possible that he is just going through a period of uncertainty. To speculate and guess that he might be cheating sounds a little bit unfair seeing as I know guys who have experienced times where they've been a bit on and off emotionally. The best thing to do in this instance is talk to your partner and tell him that to you, he hasn't seemed like himself recently. Reassure him and say that it's nothing really bad, but you just want to know if anything is wrong. Try not to speculate, because an error in judgement here could be costly.

Ultimately, just remember that six years is a solid foundation and that he does love you. You just need to continue to be there for him and aski him if everything is alright. Be yourself and I'm sure things will work out .

ok jailbait are you trying to make a point if so put it in reality terms lol

Those are the terms that have been given to you ... You don't want to talk to him about it..?

Yeah I have tried talking to him and everytime I do he always says its not me... that he is just tired or wants to be left alone... its kind of hard for me to understand that though because we live together and when I see that he is in one of his moods I dont bother him anyway but as far as the whole thing we live together so its kind of hard to (leave) him alone... you know what I mean, but also at the same time I know for me that if im having a bad day or im in a mood im always nice to him and I always look forward to seeing him at the end of the day to make me happy but I guess its just not the same for guys... I dont know how to react I guess

Ah I see... Sometimes we guys just need a little bit of space. It is hard if you are living with your partner, but space is a very general term. For him to say that it isn't you really isn't the answer to what you are asking him. You're asking him what's wrong and he isn't telling you.

At this point in time seeing as he refuses to open up, then obviously a different approach must be taken. In this case, try to give your partner some room whilst always being there for him when he needs you. Instead of coming to him, let him come to you just for a day or two. Sometimes we (not just men of course) just need a little bit of space to think for ourselves and be alone. Just tell him that if there is anything at all you can do for him, he has only to ask.

It would be best to tell him that you're going to give him some space. If you just start distancing yourself from him without warning, he may misinterpret that for you being disinterested or even angry. Tell him that you will give him some room to think for himself and have some private time. Of course if that is not what he wants or he thinks it could hurt him or your relationship, then space most likely isn't the right option. However, this is worth a try because a lot of the time, people seem a bit distant because they get so used to things. I'm sure you can count on him and you two will get through this .