What am i supposed to do?

Before I go on ranting..I'm sure this is going to be fairly long. So please, if you have the time, read it. Thank you sooo much.
The other day my mom, dad, and brother came home from his basketball game. The day before, he'd gotten his phone taken away...

for not hanging up is coat, after being told 146806332 times. My brother went back to his room while I was sitting on the couch doing my art project. My mom asked my dad where my brothers phone was so she could give it back. Then they said something I don't remember. Then my mom was like How can you take his phone away when she's back talking me. (She was referring to me btw. I tend to get mouthy sometimes. They started talking about junk, then my mom said to my dad I can't handle her Mike. I can't handle her. I was sitting right there when she said that. I got up, threw my paper and board I was writing on across the room and threw my penicl also, and went to my room. I slammed my door shut and leaned up against my door and sat down to where no one could get in. I could still hear my parents fighting, unfortunatly. I heard my dad tell my mom she's freaking lazy. (He didn't say freaking though..he iused the other word.) My dad also said something about my mom being in town because she's always there. Then my mom talked and she called my dad a liar and a cheater. She said I've taken you back 3 times Mike. 3 times. (My dad has cheated 3 times.) After all by dad went upstairs and my mom got done talking to my brother, she wanted to come in and talk to me. I, still sitting on the floor blocking my door, refused to let her in and talk. She got heartbroken I was crying at my door, then soon went to the bathroom to cry some more. I was angry that she knew I was sitting there in the livingroom when she said that she couldn't handle me. That hurt sooo bad. Anyways, after all that happened, I was getting ready to go to bed. I laid in bed reading Breaking Dawn and my dad came in to give me a kiss goodnight. I did, but I hardly said a word to him. So two days later, I still have hardly talked to my dad. Even if I have its been Yeah, Sure, Uhhuh. Just stuff like that. I've pretty much avoided all eye contact with him. And today when he got home from work, he usually comes in my room and asks me how my day was. I was sitting on my bed drawing in my sketch book, and I didn't even look at him once. I didn't even say anything to him. He said Well I'll ignore you too. He knows I'm angry. There is sooo much more I could type..but I'll stop there.
So my question is - what am I supposed to do? I'm not going to talk about it with anyone besides my boyfriend who knows what's going on. Do I just keep ignoring my dad like that until he says something? What do I do??

Trust me I do! I've been through the same thing with parents, then my friends and now my husband. What I mean is there are moments where communication breaks down or when people are pig headed or when we say things we didn't mean...they won't go away, we just need to learn to deal with them. I'm not perfect, your not perfect and neither are your parents but don,t give up on trying to mend things and move on with your relationship. In time you'll learn how to put your foot down (not by throwing stuff but by saying Hey, that hurts... or taking a walk to vent off the anger) and you'll learn that some things aren't really worth fighting about and sometimes it's better for you just to open that door and talk things through.
Maybe it's time to try to find solutions with your parents that way everyone is responsible to keep their end of the deal (ex.: no back talking but no putting anyone down). Try to see the solutions and enjoy becoming an adult by learning to communicate with them on equal terms.

You got to see your parents for what they are: people. Yup, just people with good sides and bad sides and problems and sadness and happy thoughts and all that stuff. Why am I saying this? Because if you see them as people (just like you) maybe you won't be so angry at them anymore and you'll learn to just talk to them on equal terms. I mean throwing your stuff everywhere and freaking out wasn't the best possible scenario to that scene now was it? And how about not letting your mother talk to you just because you were hurting, hurting her too? That's just plain immature and a tad bit mean.

But I can feel your really sensitive and that in the end you really do want to work things out, so instead of replaying the whole scene in your head until it hurts you some more, try a different tune. Be brave and confront your Dad (tell him it hurt and why you haven't been talking to him). TALK about it or at least try because if you don't communicate with your parents they can't understand how you feel and can't ever tell you they were sorry or that they love you...

But you don't understand how many times I've been through this, over and over again.