What am I?

I have another problem. I don't know if I am insecure or jealous. I want to know how to overcome that feeling. Sometimes my man tells me he was hanging around some girls with his boys and I automatically start thinking of things that could have happened. Is that insecuity or jealousy?

It could be both. If he has done things in the past to make you feel upset about him being around other girls than your insecure because of his past actions. If you feel he might like the other girls he's around than you might be jealous. If you are jealous than try to find comfort in the fact that you know he wants you and loves to be around you. Try to put yourself in his position, sometimes you and your friends hang around guys and girls not because you want to hook up but because you have fun talking or just joking around. If you can put yourself in the situation and feel that you won't be guilty or find anything wrong with it then try to lighten up. Talk with him about it so he can hang out with his friends and the girls once in a while, or when he does hang out ask him to call you and tell you so you feel better that he's open with you and not secretive.