Why didn't it feel good when he touched me?

well my boy friend that I have almost been going out with for two year has finaly got to the step I wanted with him we have made out had sex but it kinda felt like he was evoyding it so I talked to him and said honny I feel it is time we got to the step we have not gotten to you "fingering" he looked surprised he said alright so we go to it and I didnt realy get any satisfactory I dont know why it did not feel good do you think it is the way he is doing it or his fingers are to short I don't know please HELP ME ?

well it could be for a few reasons..you probly werent in the mood and felt that you had to do it because you asked..have him do the clit thing...u know when he rubs yur clit with his finger that gets a girl turned on no matter what lol
..and maybe its also because you werent wet enough.

Without getting into the nitty gritty...
start with light foreplay...you know..touching and stroking each others bodies...and kiss!...just make sure your in the mood and arnt doing it simply because you feel its the right time...thats just boring...dont plan it...be spontaneous

When he is fingering you... he has to reach a "shelf" at the top of the... god I dont remember these terms... opening... its about a finger's length up. And If he goes up and down on that shelf... its supposed to feel really good. If your really looking for tips, go to cosmopolitain.com... they will have what your looking for.

kayla---it could be the techneche,or maybe he isnt giving it all he has,(emotionally)wish I were able to demonstrate.but cannot be so sit him down and take yur time and talk to him and gide him thru it the way yu feel , maybe he;ll be understanding,love is a great thing win its performed right,thats wy people search for it caus they are sexually frustrated.let me no how it gos.by

To enjoy any or*l pleasures you need to be emotionally excited too. so if hes all... "uh.. I dont want to..but ok...," then yeah of course youre not going to enjoy. tell him not to be scared or anything and once he has confidence to start talking you maybe a lil dirty, then trust me itll make all the difference.

saying that to a guy is cool I wish my girlfreind would say something like that but you have to be into the moment. Possibly try this after making out and guide his hand down there. Make sure he dosent go to quick and tell him what you like and how you want it done.

IT COULD B because you WERENT IN THE MOOD OR LK SOME people SAID you JUST WERENT WET ENOUGH THEN ALSO IT COULD JUST B HIM MAYBE HE WASNT READY TOO EMOTIONALLY OR HE MAYBE FELT LK you PRESSURED HIM INTO IT THERE COULD B a lot OF POSSABLITIES BUT IT COULD B a lot OF REASONS you SHOULD JUST WAIT 4 THE RIGHT MOMMENT DONT PLAN IT JUST LET IT HAPPEN BUT YA LK A COUPLE people SAID IF you FEEL your IN A GOOD MOMEMT just SLOWLY GUIDE HIS HAND DOWN THERE
IF you JUST TALK TO HIM ABOUT what HE FEELS BOUT DOIN THAT OR and E THING you SHOULD B OPEN WITH HIM ASK HIM what HE FEELS ABOUT IT and TELL HIM what you WANT OR FEEL LET HIM know WATS UP SIT DOWN AND just TALK WITH HIM!