Is it weird to want to be raped?

is that a little bit weird?

yes, at least...its not what people would normally think about
maybe you just want sex with a complete stranger, but not to be raped though?
raped involves a lot of other things, you never know how the person is going to treat you
people would usually feel robbed after it
guilty even, and sometimes worthless
thats probably not what you want

Honestly if you really knew what being raped is actually like - you wouldn't even wish it upon your worst nightmare.

It's not actually rape if you want it.
You're just into ROLE PLAYING hardcore sex kinda stuff and that's perfectly normal to me.

ok well, 1st of I think its a bit inconsiderate asking this question as many people have asked questions on what to do when they have been raped, secondly you could have put the question in a more sensitive way in my opinion, and you may be it to roleplay as merriemac said wich is perfectly normal, but actualy wanting to be raped is un-normal. and I dont see how wanting 2 even roleplay rape is fun. So many women an men/ boy and girls/ babies get raped and its so hurtful 2 even think about it because you want to help them an even kill the bastard who did it!! so be careful want you want!! because you might just end up geting it!!!

you really dont because I have been and its really really not good to want I mean every person who has ever been raped was changed in 1 way or another and its mostly bad I mean I was cut and hit and I have been dif every since I mean you may think that it sounds cool but its really really not and if you do get raped you dont know what the person would do to you just think long and hard and you will c that you really dont want it that way

ok first off dont listen to people tll you your not "right" in the head. you just want to feel dominated over. there are ways you can do this. try a simulated "rape" thats where you get a guy (maybe the one your with?) to act like he is "raping" you. havea safety word. the safety word is for when you start feeling unsafe and so that he will stop when the word is spoken. this word can be anything but you and your partner should both agree on it before hand. dont have a word that could be accidently said or mistaken for something else and it should be a word that is easy to say like fruit or banana. stay away from words like arthritis as it has too many syllables and you might not be able to get it all out.

but it seems to me that you are what is known as a submissive and you need to find someone you can safely do this with. trust has to play a big part in this. and just because you trust the guy doesnt mean he cant wear a mask. just saying.

listen people I agree with merriemac it's not rape it self its the power control, a fetish of sorts like some people like beings tide up and spanked well fau feels like if he feels he was to be over powered while having sex thats problably what it is. or maybe the spontainuous surprise or being forced to do something that he may want to do it's just a fetish or like what merriemac said a role playing choice

its a fantasy and nothing more, just do a bit of role playing with your partner and I think that urge will go away.

whoever says "dont get raped" isnt catching the drift here... its just fantasy so calm down...BTW its only called rape if you dont want to do it

A lot of people fantasize about being raped, it is perfectly normal. Ofcourse most women dont actually want to be raped (it's more about maybe the control the other person has, or anonimity or whatever...)

I think you want some rough nasty dominating sex. It mite simulate rape in some way because this is what most mite think being raped is. Its ok to want that kind of sex and just have fun w/it and know what your boundaries are and do it w/someone your completely comfortable with and most importantly...trust.
Rape realistically speaking is a horrific event that can take away every ounce of your self-worth. It is a complete violation of your body where you have absolutely no control. Rape offenders dont get nearly enough time for this crime they commit and many women are raped everyday. I believe its 1x every 6minutes! So, remember, rape is a violent act which many times ends w/rage and murder. you on the other hand is in need of some crazy hot hold me down sex! Its ok to want this but w/a guy that understands your fantasy.

erasmus27 women can rape men man you got no brain cells left do you? and informer_220 not exactly, rape is when another forceses you against your will to have intercoaurse or oral. Or when you can't properly give consent like if you drunk, high, drugged or pasted out. Aswell as the legal age of consent plus if the person is in a higher athourity like a police person or teacher.

THAT IS KIND OF WEIRD . LIKE MY MOM GOT RAPED WHEN I WAS A BABY AND SHE STILL IS KIND FO EMOTIONALLY UNSTABLE.

samee.

Yes it is weird, you could have asked the question in a more sensitive way. Especially when are plenty of people like me in the world who it has happened to and its ruined my life. You know the saying "think before you speak!"

OMG people he's talking about a fantasy no it's not werid he wants to feel powerless. he doesn't want violent sex like rape but he wants a sinareo. yes it could have been worded a little differently like is it weird to fantasise about being raped but god he did say anything in my mind that would offend anyone. sorry if I ofened any one with my rant but those are my feeling at the moment.

you cant rape the willing!

to baffle5 have you even understood what I said? I think not.
let me say it again in a way for you to understand ITS NOT RAPE IF YOU WANT TO DO IT, and being drunk or drugged (by your own will) isnt exactly a reason to shout rape (being passed out is another thing).

wrong as usual you people really have to read up.
"Any kind of sexual activity that the other person doesn't consent to is sexual assault. The legal definition of sexual assault includes (among other things):
Oral sex, vaginal sex, anal sex, touching, kissing, grabbing, mas*urbat*ng another person, forcing another to mas*urba*e you, and mas*urbat*ng over another person."
"No one can consent to sex while drunk, drugged, or unconscious. If you sexually assault any one while you are drunk or high, it is still a crime." from Sex? A Healthy Sexuality Resource. Written by Janis Wood Catano
I know the basis of rape is not willing or being forced to sexual activities. but consent and state of mind comes in which brings us back to consent and drugs. So it can be rape if you are unable to properly and legally give consent. Have I proved my point don't mess with me man I'm smarter then you. Done, back to you. anyone else want a go?

mate get a pair of glasses and read again what people have written.
were not talking about a man getting it on with a woman but a woman wanting to be so called 'raped', so this woman cant be raped because she wants to...

so now what the f*ck do you mean by your smarter? I guess you didnt understand what the question was or what the answers were
so really you turned out to be quite the bafoon.

let me give you some advice little kid youre in grade 8 so listen to what older people have to say rather than run your mouth.

BTW kid you wouldnt know the feeling of being drunk or stoned so really you have no say what so ever on that subject...
kids these days...

F*ck you mister know it all. It doesn't matter it you want to it you couldn't give consent even if you wanted to it is still rape got for a 20 or what ever your age is go back to school get some info read up on your books and get a f*cking life. god must have put morons on this earth just to P*ss me off