We want a baby and we're 15...

Me and my boyfriend are both 15, and we want a baby. We are planning to do it, without talking to anyone first. We both know it's REALLY what we want. What do you think?

This is harsh, but ...
Pure and simple it's the single dumbest thing the two of you can possibly do.
Is your love for each other so weak that you need a baby to try to keep you together???
If you really love each other, you should be able to survive 3-6 years without a baby. And if you can't last that long, you will NEVER last with a baby.

IF you are being responsible to not only yourselves, but TO YOUR FUTURE CHILD, finish school, go to college or trade school, get jobs or careers, get married, and THEN have a baby. You will be equipped to raise the child and give it a real future.

Sorry to be so harsh. I know a few couples do last, but very few.
Good Luck!!

umm well obviously 15 is not the smartest time to have a child
do you even have jobs?
do you have moneyy to take care for a baby
probably not
I mean so what if you want a baby it won't be fair for hyour child to watch you guys suffer

I think you should wait at least 5yrs till your life is a little bit settled and you can take care of the baby yourself

I think you're a complete moron, and I hope you DO end up having a baby so that your boyfriend dumps you and see how hard it really is.

have a nice life.

I had my first son when I was 16 and we wasnt planning ...and when I told my family about it everyone was so upset ,,,my mother kicked me out of her house and everthing cause I chose not to have a abortion ..my son ended up passin away after 26days off birth...and now im 18 and just had my lil girl and im so happy to be a mom but once you become a mom you never have anytime for urself anymore ...my advice is wait till your at least 18 cause I had so many problems because my body wasnt fully mature yet and I have stomach problems and everything ...not even including how bad it hurts to have a baby ...so ya comin from a young mother ...id say wait at least 2 more years

15!? I'm 15 and I'm no where near ready to have a baby!
Why would you want one now? With the crisis going on and everything?

Let me tell you something. And when I say this, I'm being completly honest!
There is a girl in my school, she's 16, and she got pregnant. She had her baby the other day...3 months early. It has something wrong with his heart, and I heard it has a whole inside, or something like that.
What would happen if that happened to you? What would you do?
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE think about this over again!
Funmail me if you need to talkkk!

dooont fuuuckkkinnnggg do it! trust me, you two monkeys think you love eachother now!!! chances are that will change in the future. when your 15 your hormones are wild!!! and you think a lot of things. and at schooll if your preggo you'll get chirped mad! people will think your dumb, a slut, and dirty. I see it at my school its not good! and for the babies sake... you cant take care of a baby at 15! dontbe so selfish and think about the life you could potentially ruin

What worries me most is that you don't want to tell anyone about it. If you really want to have a baby then you have to plan for it. You should be getting advice on how to be healthy before and after pregnancy, how to prepare for and take care of a new born, etc etc. And this is not including preparing a secure home environment for him or her. You aren't thinking about where you'll live, who will pay for expenses and what you'll do if he or she gets sick. You are being very selfish and immature by not talking about it (with your parents and doctor) and not planning ahead to make this easier on the baby and yourselves.

okay, a lot of these answers are nto what you need to be hearing. people are being rude and inconsiderate to you.
but 15...thats a little to young. think about the baby before any of this, would it want to live knowing his'hers parents were only 15 when they were bron? my best friend's mom gave birth to him when she was 15 and he's tormented about it everyday.it sounds like you and your boyfriend are really close, and thats a good thing. but I really think for both you and your boyfriends sake and your childs sake, to wait a while longer. complete school, get a job, and then live your lives. I hope you guys live a happy life, and everything goes great for you both!

-Kerry565

its your life but kiddo
thats a big responsibility
I was very close of wanting to have a baby with my boyfriend but at the end I thought about it I was not a smart idea
plus your just 15
I would say no but its your life

I personally think that people shouldnt judge you because you want a baby at 15, BUT I do want you to look and really c how having a baby so young would change your life. It is expensive, and tiring. PLUS you and your boyfriend are really young, as you guys get older you are going to want to explore with other people. Especially when you get and college, you are going to meet tons of new people. Dont have a baby with this guy until you know if you are truly and love. If you guys love each other then waiting a few more years would be nothing to u. Be careful and *Good Luck*