We want a baby

Were both 15 turning 16 this ar we really want a baby we are gonna get married when we turn 18 its decided our parents already know and they know we have sex because im on the pill and he uses condoms but we want to have a baby now what do yall think we...

should do ?

Who the hell talked you into wanting to have a baby before you are 16? Screw the religious crap, having a baby at 16 will hurt your life so much. I had a kid at 18 and it delayed so much in my life, and im lucky I have such helpful family members.

Go baby sit some toddlers

Well for one your way to young to be having a baby trust me if you have a baby this young its just gonna put a strain on your relationship. you should take a parenting class with one of them fake babies to see how you and him are going to handle a baby this young

First thing quit having Sex,you know you our Sinning right?,now wait till you are married
and then have fun with each other:Babies are a BIG responsibility this is a big decision
you must be prepared mentally, physically ,spiritiually and most of financially you should
wait untill you have all of these needs before having a baby good luck on your decision.

I think having a baby at your age is VERY SELFISH.

Wait till you are 18 or even better until you are fully financially stable and suitable.

Having a child will cost you money is a HUGE responsibility and at 15 your body isn't nearly even ready for pregnancy and neither are you for motherhood. I mean you'll have to go through pain and pregnancy and all the other uncomfortable things that are meant for adults.

A child needs parents who are EDUCATED and at 15 you don't even have the necessary education pass over to your child.

My advice is to wait. Your parents don't need the responsibility of looking after a child at this stage, neither, because that is what is going to happen. It's unfair towards them and to everyone else in your household.

plus you'll be just ANOTHER teenager who got knocked up and you'll be labelled,be givin funny looks and all the other stuff that comes with not being mature when pregnant.

Birth is for adults, not teenagers

It's STUPID, please reconsider and keep using your birth control. don't just become another statistic

***First thing quit having Sex,you know you our Sinning right?,now wait till you are married ***

It's not a sin, just because you believe it is, doesn't mean it really is a sin. Plus she's using protection so it isn't a big deal, but the having the baby part is.

oh and this may be worth reading.

mandyloo gave excellent advice

http://www.funadvice.com/q/pregnancy_2859

There's nothing wrong with thinking it, but acting on it at your age is a different story! If you were committed to being a good parent, you'd wait about 4 years until you were a bit more settled, had finished your schooling, had a good adult relationship, a bit of money, a place of your own and some life experience. If you think that having a baby will keep your boyfriend from every leaving you, your wrong! I dont know of any 16 yr old thats ready to be a father!!

Please read, this was just posted

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^to the answer up there from ifeelcrazy123^
premarital sex IS a sin even it is protected

Look your both young and you have the rest of your life to have a baby. Bein teenage parents is no fun because welfare only helps you so long and yo family says they are gonna be there but when that baby wakes up cryin in the middle of the night its gonna be u takin care of it. Guys say they can handle it but the truth is your both to young. And if you have a baby it might put a strain on your relationship you will miss out on everything on high school. You might wanna watch the show sixteen and pregnant on MTv see how their lives changed after having a baby

***premarital sex IS a sin even it is protected***

A sin according to who? Not everyone believes in your religion and not everyone is in the same circumstances as you are.

honestly im 14 a virgin and yea yu not suppose to have sex before yu marroed bhut im glad yu are having protected sex bhut a baby is a big big responsibility yu have to do so much juss wait til yu are older will yu have the money or what so if you ready physically and mentally I dont think you are

if you want kids, stop taking the pill. and get him to stop using condoms.

listen..having a baby to young is bad..maybe cute but dont do it..becuase I turn 16 in march 25..and my man is 20..we have a bot named ka'mel...waking up in the middle of the night is not good trust me..we wanted a baby and we got one..is wasnt easy but I thought yea ill have so much support..when I didnt my mom told me not to have it..but we did..it all depend you guyz your mom is mom..my mom didnt help me to wake up every 3 hrs at night only sometimes when she felt like it.. my husband was their to help me out..he didnt like the night shift but we did it..when you have a baby your relation with him changes never go about what they say..that hes going to be there and he will help you becuase is not the same doing it..I dont know what kind of men you have..but think about it..I have a good man he help me rite now..I dont live with him but every wk he takes the baby for 2 or 3 days which its good..when you want to go out with your friends..its not easy living somebody with your baby if is not your mom cause you dont know whats going on or if they are ok.. just think about it a lot..before its to late..unless you know that you are very strong and always have been..I know I am becuase im still going in life..make sure you stay in school..to get your high school diploma..that what im doing..I wish you good luck..

First thing quit having Sex,you know you our Sinning right?,now wait till you are married

Yeah not only will you have a kid that you might not be able to take care of to the fullest, ruin a lot of your dreams, make life 10x harder, jesus is watching you have sex.

Wait dont do it get a cabage patch doll wait till your finaciallty settle got your own place good job money etc.. trust me even if its killin you wait please... may sound good but would be even better when your really ready for one an think bout the marriage an make sure you can see your self with him in 30 years lmao