We keep fighting

I am 27 and have been living with my girlfriend for two years now. It appears that the fights are intensifying and it really brings me down. I sometimes don't even know what triggers the fights but I always feel sorry for her when she starts to cry....

Please help.

If the fights are intensifying she may want to move on but doesn't know how to. I don't know who starts what or why but you have to have honesty, open mindedness, and willingness in any relationship. Try sitting her down and just asking her whats on her mind...if she gets angry and starts pointing all of her misery at you then she may just be looking for an excuse to say good bye. Give that a shot and don't make any promises that you won't or can't keep. Be gentle but firm and find out what the heck is on her mind or let her know whats on yours...

1/Try to love her. Tenderly.

2/ Make notes on that what was the reason of the fight of the day. After few days you may see that you are fighting for nothing.