We broke up now he wants to be friends and "hang out"

Well me and my boyfriend of over 6 months just broke up, and it really hurt me. But the thing that hurts even more is that he instantly replaced me with someone else, and by instantly I mean within hours of the breakup. And he is all like omg she is so...

freaking amazing blah balh blah I lvoe her so on...

And the thing that bothers me is that we still talk and text a lot, and like he wants to be friends but im not sure if I can handle that.

[oh andother important fact we just broke up friday] 10/24

And we were texting today and he wants us to go and hang out
And I dont know if I can handle that
And maybe its just me
But I know that he did care
About me
I dont know if he still does but I don't know

And the things im wandering is do you think he still has feelings for me, and do you think that after 6 months we can be just friends

I know how you feel havent really been with anyone for 6 months but my current relationship is 5 months and I really love my boyfriend, I dont know what I would do if that happen to us... but anyway we nearly broke up, he thought I was breaking up with him xD but yeah we both felt how vulnerable we both are without each other, so were still together ^^

Well anyways, I dont know what's your ex's problem is, even though if he still have feelings for you, would you take him back?
if you would, first think about what he did after you two broke up, he didnt even wait a day or two to move on. That doesn't really show how much he cares about your feelings
That's just lame, I dont mean to be mean... but I know that he really does care for you, because that would be a waste of time being together for 6 months there must be something in you he really like to stay with you for a long time, but in the other hand he could av been seeing her at that time

If he invites you to hang with him just tell him how you feel... that you dont think your ready to be going out, because it really hurted you and that he should be able to understand that himself, and should give you time before iniviting you to hang out... if you want him to suffer go out and flirt with other boys and show him what a big mistake he av done...

I hope your ex- boyfriend realise what his missing and if he says sorry [really sorry] forgive him and think if you still want him back :] but ask him if he has been cheating you all along, if he has dont even waste any of your time

sorry friday was a good day for me my son turned 2 but I think you shud be his friend his best friend at that and make sure you look amazing everytime yall hang out make him want you flirt with other with other people make him jealous and sry that he broke up with you good luck hunny...

I can understand that you love and miss him and that its hard for you to be friends with him. You should just give it a try. I mean if you show him what he lost then I bet he would relize that he made a mistake. I hope this works out for you. I am also sorry he done that. It was a b!t(h move for him to get with someone instantly after you all broke up. He must of been cheating or something. But do NOT get back with him. That is a really big mistake.

Stop hanging out with someone whose just going to break your heart. It's just a waste of time and it hurts you. Why not invest that time meeting new guys and making new friends? You don't need someone who is ready to dump you and move on without blinking an eye. He can't seriously care for you because he doesn't respect you. You deserve someone better. He just wants to be friends in case his new relationship doesn't work out, he can fall back on you. I say good riddance!

He broke up with you and within hours he moved on to someone else. What does that tell you? It tells me that you after 6 mos. meant nothing to him. He doesnt love her...You need to stay away from him, because he is only confusing you. Isnt it obvious that he doesnt have feelings for you, at least not the right ones. Its only friend feelings, and the ONLY way for a friendship to happen between ex's is if there are NO emotional feelings for one another. Which means HE can be friends with you, since hes the one who broke up, but you cant because you still want him. Cut ALL ties with him...He doesnt want to get back with you, he just wants to keep you on the side (as zorbot says) in case things dont work out with this relationship. Who wants to be second best, when you can find someone who will want you for his # 1.

a year ago I me and a boyfriend broke up .,. and on the same night he got with somebody .. he told me truth but introduced me to her! flaunted her in my face and he even asked me on valentines to help pick her pressie.. that was heartbreaking I felt somebody ripped my heart out .. I never told him what he was making me feel like I got over it .. I carried on hanging around with them .. but I also faded away from him slowly so he didnt notice hes effecting me (dont give him satisfaction!)..he soon missed me :D...its all good and well him having somebody else to not care about you nomore but trust me when you go out his life slowly without saying anything and not making a situation or problem .. he misses you bigtime and believe me .. do this and he will come running back and personally what you said .. I wouldnt get back tell him you moved on and go back to that gal :D youll feel better for it .. just drift really slowly .. cut down on txts and hanging around with them..just dont make it obvious

He may just want you on the side and/or string you along - clean break is best - down the road, 'we'll see'.