We are on a break

So my boyfriend and I are on a break, and I found out he has been seeing another girl. So today I didnt want to be home by myself so I went over to my guy friends house. We were messing around and whatever. We didnt have sex like I know my boyfriend and that other girl did. When I see my boyfriend-ish tomorrow should I tell him I messed around with another guy, before or after he comes clean about the girl he did?
I don't know im a mess right now. What should I do?

just do what they did on FRIENDS. lol

Dear trying2understand,
People just don't take a break in a relationship...I believe your relationship was over at that point. What is the idea of saying we are still together but we both are messing around? Time to drop the drama and drop the guy. You both are treating each other with disrespect and that has to stop. When you see him tell him it's over...people who care about each other do not treat each other this way and you both deserve better in a relationship.
Sue...good luck

there is no such thibg as a break...your either together or your not...sure why not tell him you dont have to give details but its ok that you went over there since you guys are on a 'break'...OMG!!! I cant believe I jut sd that...lol

It seems like you messed around with someone, just because he did. I don't at all think you should be together, you both went off with other people so you obviously don't care about each other.

Me and my boyfriend are on a break right now because we depended on each other too much and spent too much time together. but neither of us would go around and mess with someone else. If you two really cared for each other you wouldn't have done that. I don't feel like either of yins deserve each other. Take time and be alone and think of what you really want.