Was it rape?

I've been sexually assaulted before so ima bit hesitant about this stuff in th first place but basically me and my boyfriend got horny and he wanted to have sex but I didn't so I said no but he kept tryna persuade me so in the end I threw the condom at...

him and went '*sighh* fine'. It was blatantly obv thru my body language that I didn't want to but we went ahead with it and I ended up just Layin there. Then we stopped and I sat down beside him and he finished him self off while I cried (which hurt). Then he started apologising loads and said he understood if I dumped him.

My question to you is... Is this rape? I'm not sure it is but my friend said to ask to make sure xxx

no its not rape... he didn't force it upon you did he? like grab your arms and force himself inside of you while you continued to say no... I have been raped before, by my father, and he held my legs over his shoulders and held my arms down while he did the rest... rape is described *in my words* as unwanted unpleasurable sex, forced penetration... that is what has happened to me, and if you said fine then I don't think it was rape!

yes I dont you said no and no means no

she said fine afterwards though, and she wasnt trying to stop him so its tecnically not considered rape!

I learned about this through a thorough sex ed class(more than just health class)and even if you said yes yes yes it is rape if in your mind you are thinking no. as long as you don't want it it is rape!report him!

oh and btw I know this is fake fau!but im only answering it for people who went through this same thing and are looking for answers!