Was i wrong in not accepting an apology?

Ok here's my problem:
As you already know, I really love my boyfriend!! I thought he was a good person just like me!! And as I said, he agrees with everything I say! And you know, stuff like that! Any way, yesturday night, I wanted to see him, and I...

told him at school that I'm going to pass by his house for a minute, just to see him, and when I got there, his father opened the door and told me, he's upstairs with his girlfriend and I was quite for a minute, then I ran upstairs, and I opened the door of his room!!! And I saw my boyfriend having sex with that girl!! And I left his house, and today at school, he came to apolagize, and I didn't accept his apolagizing! About me not accepting his apolagize, was I wrong?

NO!! you wrnt wrong at all!!, hes cheated on you with another girl and the worst thing about it is!! YOU CAUGHT HIM IN THE ACT!! dont accept his apology! because you desevre better then a low life cheating scub bag like him!! I say GET RID OF HIM!! no kind of apology can make you 4get the fact of seeing him sleeping with ANOTHER! girl when hes ment 2 b YOUR! MAN!! DUMP THE SCUM BAG! and move on!! xxx

Just like sophie lea07 said you were not wrong at all!!! he had no right to cheat on you and he did he has no escuse for it. No one deserves to be cheated on. dump his sorry a*s and get a better guy!!

how can girls be so stupid, sorry but dam. Ya a guy cheats on me and im thining I should have accepted his apology. Hmm oh well. Heres some life advice to stick by. I found it to be very true. Anyone who cheats once will do it again and again. theres two types of people, cheaters and non cheaters. There is no middle. I've seen plenty of people take their boyfriend, girlfriend back who cheated. They alwsy's cheat again. But whats sad is they don't tell their partner

If all it takes is for a boy to apologize to you when hes cheated on you, then girl you have some serious self esteem issues! HE CHEATED ON YOU! It wasnt an accident. You dont accept an apology for something that was intentional! He doesnt want a girlfriend...he wants a sex toy! You need to dump him, and let him know that you arent going to be his doormat! He cheated on you once, he will do it again! I'm sure that wasnt his first time!

He cheated. He cheated on you. And you think YOU were the wrong one? No. He supposedly loved you.
I don't believe that if you truly love a person, you can even consider, thinking, about cheating on them.
That's not love.
You weren't wrong at all. Just ignore him,and stick with your beliefs.

ok everyone, calm down!! I left him and had a fight with him! and I will ignore him for ever!! and angelfire I guess you were right from the first question I asked!! I'm SO MAD AT HIM! I never thought that he'd do something like this!! from now and on there's no HIM IN MY MIND!! HE'S IN MY PAST NOW!! I DON'T KNOW HIM ANYMORE!
and this tought me not to trust boys any more, unless I know them WELL!!
but thanks for encoureging me everyone!! I have more confedince to face him and tell him that it's over between us!! I'm going to feel so good after I say that!!

Holding in all that anger and pain is not healthy for you. If you can, accept his apology. He probably is sorry (yeah I know a sorry sack of ...). You can forgive him and still remember what he did. I am NOT saying to get back with him (learn your lesson) but the nicer, and more tolerant, and cooler you are about it, the more it will kill him knowing how much he messed up. Then you are making the situation about him screwing up instead of you feeling hurt. You get to heal, and he gets to continue being a dumbass. Good job standing up for yourself.

GIRL NO you WASNT WRONG!! dont accept it. He knew you were coming over and it was clear that he wasnt thninking about you because he LET HER IN THE HOUSE not ALONE is his BEDROOM!!! THAT IS SO DIRTY!! If it was me who caught him in the act I WOULD HAVE WENT OFF. I would have not let the house until I IDID DAMAGE!!lol you got to let him know you aint the one to mess with. PLEASE DO NOT GET back with him. you deserve so much better. If you do take him back your showing him that he can cheat on you and all he has to do is apologize and its okay. NO GIRL!! your so much better than that. kick him to the curb. He wasnt thinking bout you when he was with that girl so dont think about him and his feelings right now.